u/Square-Yak815

This is a follow-up question from my previous question, 'How Do You Manage Your Breakups When EH Is Involved?'.

Context: I don't need it right now, but I'm interested in listening to some, out of curiosity, and for the future, so I'll know what to expect. I keep my play in real life, and I know nothing about online EH yet. Do you have recommendations of websites or ethical hypnotists that published some? Or any other resources?

Thank you

I'm going through my first D/s and EH breakup. When we broke up, I told them that something emotionally painful was stuck in my head. They told me they can send me a cleaning file they recorded at the beginning of our dynamic. I accepted. It gave me hope.

Five days later, no file. I send a follow-up. They reply they lost the file. I ask if it is really worth listening (maybe it's not, maybe it's too general, maybe self-hypnosis would be more efficient, I don't know, it's my first EH breakup). They does not answer, but they tells me they'll do another one, 'hopefully tomorrow'. I thank them. In the end, I was ghosted.

So, harm happened. No accountability was taken. They gave me false hopes and then ghosted me. :)

I internalized the belief that I depended on them for the cleaning. And that seeing an hypnotherapist would have given less efficient results. It took me months before thinking about self-hypnosis.

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I have questions for you guys, as I'd like to hear your experience. To cope with your EH breakup(s), hypnotic triggers, reprogramming, etc., have you ever...
- Listened to a cleaning file recorded by your ex?
- Met an hypnotherapist?
- Used self-hypnosis?

Was it helpful or harmful? Have you tried many strategies ? Which one was the most efficient?