47/m been curious about finding an IRL jobud for a long time, but my anxiety always gets the better of me

I’m married for one, have a family for another thing. I’m always worried someone I know will see me or, maybe worse yet, once I get into the room with the guy, he either tries taking it too far beyond what I’d be comfortable with or even records it for blackmail later (what can I say, I’ve watched way too much SVU). I’ve done it online some (here, Snap, session, etc..) and have fantasized about trying it IRL for years, but for reasons mentioned above, have never pulled the trigger on it. Sure, I’m horny, but I’m also paranoid AF. Anyone else?

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u/Standard_Patient_298 — 1 month ago