u/Tabitha_Sometimes

I've been exploring my nipples and my man boobs for the past six months, and I thought I might share a few things that I've learned.

Since retiring from a high-testosterone career last year (Fire/EMS), I've allowed myself some feminine indulgences. Nail polish, panties, all the cliches, - with the amazing understanding and support of my wife. I embraced my perfect little man boobs, and started exploring their sensitivity.

I vacationed in Europe earlier this year and the jet lag had me waking at odd hours -a perfect time to play with the girls. There were nights that I probably only got a few hours' sleep, but i was busy studying my anatomy. When I wake in the middle of the night, or in the morning, I am perfectly poised for nipple time. I'm relaxed, warm, free from distractions. Oftentimes, all it takes is a few soft flicks of a finger and I have back-arching, toe curling nipplegasms. From a relaxed, prone position, I might arch my back (tightly) as the sensations build, or I rock my pelvis forward. Posturing ahead of those sensations seems to block the orgasm. The hip-rocked-forward option is more reliable, but the back-arched strategy often rolls into a second, extended orgasm. Time allowing, I can experience as many as a few dozen orgasms in a row. I seem to lose count around 10 or so. I will end a session drenched in sweat. We sleep in a king bed, and there's enough room that I don't wake the wife.

My nipplegasms are dry (if you don't count the copious precum that sometimes flows), and I'm trying to figure out how to connect my ejaculations to nipple stimulation. It's like having a word on the tip of my tongue, but I can't quite say it. My 'need' to ejaculate seems to have decreased since becoming nipplegasm capable. But I still wanna cum a couple times a week.

I've told my wife all about the nipple orgasms, and other than a generous nipple massage (small orgasm!) she hasn't really been interested. Our sex life has been in stasis for a number of years, and I honestly think her brain and endocrine system just don't think sexually any more. It sucks getting older, kids.

After weeks and weeks of twisting and abusing my tender nips, I've discovered a few things:

Make time. I'm not a 12 year old anymore; I need a little foreplay. Get comfortable, relax and let it happen. Fast is the enemy of ecstasy. Any pressure, deadline, pending engagement is going to set you up for disappointment.

Less is more. Most of the time, tiny feathery touches is all it takes if everything else is in order. Break up your rhythm, slow down, tease those nubbins. Oh. So. Lightly. Titty twisters have their place, but they don't usually get my balls rolling. Not quite feeling it? Slow down. Even pause for a while.

Science! Be consistent, and methodical. Don't change too many variables as you learn how to play this amazing instrument. I like lying on my back, legs extended, but I've had wonderful nipple orgasms sitting, standing up, on my knees.

Don't touch your dick. If your brain wants an orgasm, make it talk to your nipples. Interestingly, if I forget and start to play with my dick during nipple time, guess what? I might have a nipple orgasm. No jizz, just a full body workout. Strange and fun.

Baby your babies. Be kind to your nips. Lotions. Really. They will soften and become more pliable. As mentioned by many, a thin veneer of fabric on your nipples can prevent a world of hurt. Snug or loose, doesn't seem to matter. I can't keep my hands off them during the day. Even if my toes aren't curling, I still really enjoy nipple play given some time and space.

I'm pretty happy with this new secret super power.