u/ThatGuy-Spellboy

I need someone that will take their time sucking my cock.
I have been trying to find a recurring thing… you up for it?

All true, all over 18, and consensual

I was really having a rough time when I first broke up with my first ex. I was not sure I wanted to really put myself out there again, but unfortunately my sex drive was not letting me stay single.
I downloaded Grindr and thought I would see what I could find. What I found out was that 99% of the users are all talk and the others seemed to be catfishing with pics that didn’t match when we met up.
Anyway, I did have a guy that kept messaging me. He was very aggressive when he messaged and while I was horny AF, he was a total arrogant ass!
He would message me and say things like you need to come over and be my bitch, or come over and let me show you how to please me. Well, to me, you can have a perfect body, perfect penis, perfect whatever… but if you are an ass… you are an ass all over. Unfortunately he was the only person talking to me so I was like, ok… sure.. I’ll play his game and decided to go to his place.
On my way I just got more and more angry at myself for agreeing to it. I am not anyone’s “Bitch” and I don’t take orders from anyone. So I decided on the way to change it up, and see what happened.
When I arrived to his place, I knocked and as soon as he answered the door and told me to come in, I stepped inside and he locked it behind me. He told me to take my shoes off and get on my knees. I smiled at him, put my hand over his mouth and shook my head. I started pushing him backwards into his own living room. His eyes were all over the place looking at me like I had lost my mind. He started to say something and I smiled again and waved my finger at him to keep quiet. When he was backed up against his couch I turned him around, away from me, and reached around and unbuttoned his pants and pushed both his pants and boxers down began stroking his cock from behind. Every time he tried to talk I just growled in his ear and told him to stay quiet.
He was a big guy, built well and had an impressive cock! I would say a good 7 1/2, and it was hard enough to break rocks!
I undid my own pants let them drop to the floor, and spit in my hand, rubbed it on my cock and lined it up. I bent him over his couch, and slowly gave him my 8” with his cock in my hand slowly stroking.
From the time he opened the door to my cock being balls deep in his confused ass, couldn’t have been more that 5 minutes. I slowly started working myself in and out, until he was stretched out. Then i gave it to him hard and fast, our skin slapping him moaning, and me not letting up.
As I felt myself about to blow my nut, I pulled out, spun him around and pushed him down to his knees and came on his shocked face.
Pulled my pants up grabbed my shoes and walked to the door. As I left I smiled at him and said “now who is the Bitch”?

I hadn’t even made it back to my car and he was calling me, saying that was so fucking hot! Come back man! I didn’t get off! I tossed my phone into the passenger seat started the car and drove home…

I talked to him a little bit later that night and he was a totally different guy. He was saying man you can be in charge anytime! I never went back…

I am not usually an aggressive guy, but something in the way he always messaged me, made me want to set him straight! Anyway…

I had decided that I was through with the abusive relationship I had been trapped in for 17 years and got myself an apartment of my own. It was a mess when I was about to move in but I am good at drywall repairs so I offered to fix the place if they would bypass the security deposit. They said ok

I was a bartender at the time and it was just about 2 blocks from my new place. I walked to work every day and began getting my life together.
The bar didn’t have much space so they had a small DJ set up and that was it. I thought I had it made! I made two or three hundred in tips a night and life was good!
One evening my boss and the DJ were talking after we closed and were talking about how horny they were. They know I’m BI so they knew I was ok with the talk, before you know it the DJ, a guy I considered HOT AS HELL, was fucking her on a pool table while I finished closing the bar.

Not going to lie, I was about to pull my cock out and jerk off but they didn’t last very long, so I didn’t get to pop off.

The DJ sauntered back to the bar where I was just finishing the cleanup, and just smiled at me, he asked me if I liked what I heard… I said well yeah! But I wanted to see what was going on! He just laughed at me. I had told him many times that he was the best looking man at the bar…

I had asked him if he would help me fix a big hole in the drywall at my apartment, and he reconfirmed for
that following afternoon.

When he came by the next day he brought in his tools and got to working on it. He was throwing casual talk here and there, just easy stuff nothing big. He patched the spot and we set fans on it to dry. I started to make him something to drink and he went to wash his hands and use the bathroom.

I finished his drink and went back to the room connecting to the bathroom and he opened the door wearing nothing but his utility belt!

Now this guy is an ex Marine, built solid. I was at first thinking it was a set up and if i made a move he was gonna whoop my ass! It scared me! But damn he had a nice cock, and he was all smiles.
He said I want you to suck my cock while we wait…
I had jerked off thinking about it so many times but seeing it right there in my face, I was on it before he knew what hit him! His cock is right at 7” and girthy top to bottom with a down curve that I was able to swallow to the balls. I had him moaning and groaning in no time, as i gave him the first man head he had ever had. He was getting close and his cock swelled even more as i throated it and he shot his load down my throat. I was surprised because there was not much taste to it and he told me it was because of his vasectomy. (Yeah didn’t know that changed it but it did)

Anyway he was not at all going to touch me he said but he said it was the best head he ever had and asked me if I would want to do it more often…

That’s how I got my first and current FWB. I will tell you that over the years he has changed a lot. Now when i need to get my nut off i can call him and he will meet me wherever we can and he loves taking my 8” deep in his ass. He is one of the best friends I have ever had and the fun we have had is amazing!

(A side note, if you have read my other story you know about Jason. He and I are doing really well and my FWB has been focusing his time with his fiance)

Jason and I have been friends for a good 18-20 years now, and for many of those I have been head over heels for him. He is bisexual, as am I, and if you have ready part one, you know that we do have a little fun now and then.
Anyway, the reason I wanted to post a second part for this story is because things are evolving a bit, as you will see…

Jason has fallen into some hard times and like so many others right now money is tight. He is looking for a new job, he is struggling to meet the bills, and he is really getting down on himself about it.
I have told him it is not about him, it’s about the world we are in right now, but it doesn’t seem to help. I have been helping him out as much as I can, but I find it hard to keep my finances organized a lot of the time also.
He has opened up a lot to me recently, about his feelings and his past. He has always had feelings of inadequacy, and always had a low self esteem. I try to build him back up and yet he stays in that groove.
He has found that when he and I are kind of cuddled on the couch, me behind him, his back to me, and his head on my chest, that he is able to let go. He has told me a lot of deep stuff, and has cried numerous times. Now you have to understand, he has a gym body, is built strong, very good looking and a manly kind of guy, so seeing him fall apart is not just unusual, but really kind of sexy to me.
I massage his head/shoulders and hug him when he needs it.
It was during one of the couch times that he just stopped, turned to me and said he loved me. He has said it before but this time he really looked at me in the eyes and said it. I got choked up a little and was about to try and say something back but he kissed me so quickly, before I could think and held my head while he kissed me. He was so passionate, and when he slid his tongue into my mouth I was surprised. He never used the tongue before, and while it surprised me, I felt my cock go from a limp noodle to a fully hard ready to go thing!
He kissed me like I had never been kissed before and it was sending me into all kinds of different directions. What was this about, why is this happening, and things like that. When he pulled away he looked at me in the eyes and said, “I have wanted to do that for a long time, I was just afraid of what you would say.”
I laughed a little and told him, “Dude, you have no idea what kind of door you just opened…”
He leaned back into me again and felt my hardness against his back, and sat up again, turned around, and looked me again in the eyes. He was looking at me as his hands began to undo my pants. I was unsure what to do, so I didn’t do anything. He had never been this proactive before. He got my pants undone, and tried to pull them down so I lifted up so he could. My cock was raging now, and my boxer briefs were showing it fully. His eyes left mine and started to look down at my straining underwear, as his hand reached up the leg and wrapped around my hard on. His eyes flashed up to mine again and he smiled, he pulled my cock from my underwear and slowly he leaned down and put his face in my crotch and inhaled a deep breath in.
He visibly shivered as my scent went through him. That was all it took and he began to lower his mouth over me. Slowly, and nervously. He had never done this before, and while he was clumsy at first, I didn’t care! He started using his tongue to tease and manipulate my dick, and I was so turned on by it I knew i wasn’t going to last long at all. I told him after a minute or two to stop and he reluctantly did. He stood up and took off his shirt and pants, he was not wearing any underwear, and I could see his beautiful cock as hard as it could get right in front of me. I leaned in and took him into my mouth, not slow like he did, but all the way to his balls in one swift move. He grabbed my head and ran his fingers through my hair and groaned. “FUUUUCCCKKK Man!” He managed to say through the heavy breathing.
I looked up and he met my eyes with his and I could see something I hadn’t seen before, a passion, or lust/love that wasn’t just because I was giving him head but because his feelings were coming through. I felt a wash of love come over me that I never felt before….
He pulled himself back, his hardness leaving my mouth left me feeling a bit sad, but when he told me to stand up, and I did, he took me into his arms and kissed me again.
He began walking me backwards through the room kissing me as we went. My shorts were around my ankles so I was having trouble until I was able to shake them off one foot.
Next thing I knew he had me on the bed. He was in top of me, his perfect body, hairy chest against me, his lips on mine. His hands holding my ass firmly as we pressed against each other tight. He broke free from me and reached toward the nightstand. In the drawer where I kept my lube his fingers shuffled around until he found it. He opened it and began to rub some all over his giant cock. Then he started putting some on my ass… i was a little scared because i don’t do that with just anyone, and he was the biggest guy to ever go there… he was looking at me in the eyes the whole time and as he loosened me up, i relaxed, when i felt the head of his dick pressing against my hole, I felt the resistance right away but I made myself relax as it slipped in. I started pushing myself into his hips taking more and more of him each time. Then when I was sure it was ok, I went for hit and slammed myself all the way down on his 8.5 massive cock.
It was the most incredible feeling of both pain, and pleasure. He was hitting a place I had never felt before and even though he wasn’t moving I was on fire!
He groaned, and slowly began pulling out. Almost all the way, and then slowly back in til his balls we’re against me again. Slow and easy he went, steady as my body began to accept and crave more. He looked at me and said “Why haven’t we ever done this? Fuck man, I have wanted you since you first sucked my cock!”
I was not in the mood for talking and I told him, “do we have to talk about this now? I would rather you fuck me, if that’s ok with you!”
He laughed, leaned down and kissed me, as he drove his cock in and out, his low hangers slapped my ass with each thrust. His cock hitting my prostrate just perfectly, as our bodies rocked together. We changed positions a couple times, me on top riding him, him thrusting from behind his arms wrapped around me. Then on my back with my legs up to my chest he started building. His eyes stared into mine, and as he was about to blow he asked if he could cum in me, I just said shut up and give it to me….
He blasted over and over his body shaking and rocking with mine, as he was shooting his load deep inside me I was shooting my own on my chest and stomach. He collapsed down on me, his cock still deep inside me. His breath fast. He dipped his finger in my cum and brought it to his lips and tasted me. Then gently he pulled his softening cock from me and began licking every bit of my cum off my chest.
We laid naked beside each other for about ten minutes, me playing with his hair, he was playing with my balls and now flaccid cock. I asked, “So what brought this on? Don’t get me wrong, I have wanted this for years, but you have always been so… not ready or whatever”.
He was quiet a few seconds, and then he said, “You are the best friend I have ever had, you are always there for me, and I have never had a doubt that you wouldn’t be. You are the only constant in my life. You bring me up, you call me sexy, you say you love me, and you never give up on me. I realized that you are the only real person I know and I am so in love with us. We are good together, and I just know that no one will ever mean more to me than you.”
By this time I was wiping my face, tears were in my eyes and I was actually at a loss for words.
“What does this all mean?” I asked. He said something along the lines of “it means we are going to do this again in about ten minutes, then shower and maybe do it again. I hope that is ok with you and we can go from there…”

That was a week ago. He and I are thinking of getting a place together, still working it out. I just know that he is finally seeing that being with a man is ok, being with a woman is ok. He is finally seeing life as something to be enjoyed on his terms and not by rules that people we have never met, seen, or cared about set on us. I mean who said it was wrong, and those people that said that, where did they get the authority to tell me my happiness was/is wrong, and why the hell do we have to live by the ancient rules that no one alive made up for us?

I just know that Jason is happy, I’m happy, my life is good, and this guy is the one guy that I have always wanted to be with and now he wants me too. Sex is great, love is great, and yeah… that’s why I wrote part two.

My best friend, I’ll call him Jason, and I are very close. He has been through some really hard times as I have and we truly get each other. I am a Bi 56 he is straight 38.
He has been in and out of jail a lot of his life and his self esteem has always been an issue for him. He just doesn’t see what everyone else does when he looks on the mirror. He is very attractive with that dark hair, dark eyes, very muscular build that makes you mad because he never has to go to a gym…
As I said, we get each other…
Early into our friendship I found myself falling absolutely in love with him. I told him this and he said he too was in love with me, but in a more brother or ride or die way…
Not the romantic way.
As he was taking classes at Ivy Tech, I rented an apartment for us both so he would be closer to school and would have a safe quiet place to study. His home-life was neither, his siblings were awful to him, and his brother blamed a drug bust on his mother and she was doing time for it. (For real! She did 7 years because her kid said the drugs were hers!)

Anyway, we both had jobs, I work on restoring woodwork in historic homes, and he was part of a construction/masonry company. We would both be exhausted after work.

One evening I was cutting his hair for him while his girlfriend watched and talked to us. She kept telling Jason to ask me… he would say “NO!” Over and over! Finally I just said what the heck are you talking about?

Jason, red in the face said.. “She wants me to see if you will trim me up.” I was confused at first, then I got it…
Keep in mind, I had never seen him undressed completely. In his boxer briefs maybe 2-3 times, but never naked. Now that isn’t to say that I hadn’t seen him with his morning situation standing at attention, but through his clothes. (I offered to help each time that happened but he would always go red and say something like “man, quit that!”
So for his girl to ask me to trim him was my chance to finally see him 100%! I told them I had no issue with doing it, and I would not make it weird.
So after cutting his hair, he stripped bare and I trimmed his chest, groin, and butt. (He had a lot of hair)
He was doing his best to keep occupied on his phone to avoid getting an erection, as I used the clippers on his groin, and i saw just how well endowed he really was. His uncut penis soft was nearly 6.5” and very big. (Again self esteem issues?!?!)
So it became routine that whenever I cut his hair I would trim him up. I never said anything to make him feel weird about it.
One evening after work he was exhausted. His back was very sore and as a deep tissue massage therapist I offered to work on his back.
He stripped to his underwear and got on the table. I worked on his back for about 45 minutes and he asked me if I could hit his hips/buttocks as well. So after 15 minutes there he started to get up… or at least I thought he was getting up. He just flipped over, and asked me to do the front as well.
I was hesitant at first because I didn’t want to make him uncomfortable. But I started working on his legs, then chest shoulders etc. when all that was left was the areas covered by his boxer briefs I told him. “ I am going to have to stop now, because if I don’t, I am not going to be able to stop myself, and I don’t want to upset you.
He had his eyes closed til then, and he opened them, looked me in the eyes and as he pushed his shorts down said “you wont upset me…”
He was already at full mast, 8.5” and THICK!! In my own shorts I was too!
I asked if he was sure because my self control was sliding away like his shorts. He smiled and said, “Yeah, if you are ok with that…” I actually laughed at that!

I spent an hour orally edging, servicing, and showing him how much I was ok with it. I showed him how much I appreciated the chance to truly make him feel good. I poured all the love I had for him, into what I was doing… As he was about to climax, he kept trying to push my head off and I just looked a him and shook my head. I was not about to leave a mess. Then he said the hottest thing I had ever heard him say, “oh f*** you’re makin me nut, I love you man I love you…”
That may sound funny, but to me it was amazing.
After I finished, I told him that I was going to have to go to the other room and relieve myself, and he said he wanted to watch, maybe help if he could. I told him he didn’t need to, and he said “what if I want to?” That, and his lips on mine had me finished in less than a minute.

Our relationship has not changed, we still are as close as ever. Only one small difference… every trim day is a followed up with a draining as well. He doesn’t reciprocate sexually, but I am so good with that.

His fiancé knows all about us, she is 100% good and has watched me do it. He said it is by far the best BJ’s he has ever had and she doesn’t have to do that anymore…. I am so lucky that I have this man in my life as not just my best friend, but in a much more connected way

I am as tired as most of you are of guys saying in their message that they want to suck your dick, but flake out. If you’re going to play games then why are you here? I will be very discreet, I don’t expect reciprocation, but won’t say no. I am open to other things as well but be honest and up front, or it’s not happening.