u/TheBenevolentBull

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How the new posting system works, with examples:

Here is what will happen for all posts if you are unverified: 1. The post will go to a queue and we will be notified it needs review. 2. Upon review we will either approve the post if it meets the rules requirements here or remove the post. 3. Your post will go live, if approved. 4. If you are a verified and approved user you will get to bypass this process.

u/TheBenevolentBull — 1 day ago

The new post restrictions are now in effect as we update the backend side of the sub.

All posts, except from thase that are verified, will now need mod approval to go live. The rules are being updated for single male picture requirements. Finally new user flair will be available to both verified users and validated users. Please understand that this may cause posts to slow down for a day or two while everything is being updated.

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u/TheBenevolentBull — 2 days ago

Verified User Program

Here is our requirements to become a verified user. First let me reiterate that you DO NOT have to be a verified user to post. However if you are unverified then any and all posts you submit will have to be approved by the moderators before they will be allowed to go live on Georgia Hotwives.

All Verifications will be completely private and will be only viewed by the verifying moderator. Once verification is complete the user is free to delete at will from the DM.

Verification Process:

  1. Via a MOD Mail ONLY, let us know you would like to be verified. With in 24 hours a Mod will reply and then start a DM to perform the verfication. DMs that go 24 hours unanswered will be deleted and you will have to start the process over again.
  2. Once you have been dmed, you will be asked to provide the following:
  • Age/s and location. Location will need to be atleast at a county, preferably city, level.
  • 3 unique, uneditted full body pictures (face not necessary). For couples you both must be in the picture together for it to count.
  • In each picture must be a handwritten piece of paper with the date and "Georgia Hotwives"on it. The writing must be legible.
  • To recieve the added notation that you are validated (akin to a system SDC uses), you must be able to provide the reddit user id of someone you have met and who will vouch that you are real and looking to play. This will be independantly confirmed. This extra notation will tell other users here that you are serious and not just looking to collect pics or be a penpal.

For those locals that have content creator sites, you are still allowed to post and seek playmates here. However you may not require a release form as a condition to play with a partner. Any reports of you doing so will result in an immediate ban.

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u/TheBenevolentBull — 3 days ago

Upcoming changes. Must read if you don’t want to be banned.

Happy 4th everyone. We have taken the feed back you have provided and settled on a path forward. There are going to be several changes that we think will help everyone’s experience.

First let me discuss what we learned. The overwhelming majority of voters agreed that the onslaught of low quality dick pic posts need to stop. It was close to a 85% voting to outlaw them. What was just as interesting though is the number of silent users that voted. These are people that never post, never comment but use the subreddit often. We try and create a healthy safe environment where everyone can participate and where those who choose to be derogatory are banned quickly. So with that in mind here are the changes going into effect Monday July 6th:

  1. We will be creating a new verified user program. This process will not only verify authenticity but experience and be granted special posting privileges that usurp the next change. There will be a separate post on requirements to be verified.

  2. We will be implementing a new layer of moderation where all posts by non verified users will need to be reviewed by the moderation team and approved before they are made public. This will filter all of the bots, sellers, and lazy singles that refuse to read and follow the rules here

  3. Single Male posts may still include a well taken dick pic (explanation to follow), but not as the first picture in the post. The first picture must be a PG picture. Think a picture you would text your mother. As for what defines a quality dick pic: an image that shows your penis and atleast 40% of your body. Images of only your dick and none of any other part of your body will be removed and repeated offenses will result in a permanent ban.

We understand that these are dramatic changes and will allow a little grace in implementation but are patience will run thin to those that look to abuse it. And if there are any questions feel free to comment here or send a Mod Mail to the mod team.

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u/TheBenevolentBull — 3 days ago

Opinions needed on how to handle single male content going forward.

There has been an abundance of low quality dick pics flooding the sub lately, and frankly it has been discussed that it is hurting the over all post quality around here. So vote in the poll on which option on how to proceed you would like to see.

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u/TheBenevolentBull — 13 days ago

46M /Dawsonville M4MF/F. 6’2” 175lbs and 8”. With 20+yrs experience I’ve helped a ton of couples get into the lifestyle, and countless others to continue their enjoyment. So if you need an experienced, discreet and friendly male to help you, then dm me.

u/TheBenevolentBull — 30 days ago

46M /Dawsonville M4MF/F. 6’2” 175lbs and 8”. With 20+yrs experience I’ve helped a ton of couples get into the lifestyle, and countless others to continue their enjoyment. So if you need an experienced, discreet and friendly male to help you, then dm me.

u/TheBenevolentBull — 30 days ago

Updated Post/Title requirements: Must read to be able to post. 5/31/26

Due to far too many people choosing to not read the rules we have automated new post requirements to post. Starting immediately all post TITLES must include the following 4 items:

  1. ⁠Your age
  2. ⁠What you are looking for (ie m4f, mf4mf, etc)
  3. ⁠Location (and no just putting Georgia isn’t specific enough)
  4. ⁠A description of what you are looking for in a partner, and/or a description of what you have to offer.

There is now a minimum post title length implemented to enforce these guidelines be followed. Meaning if your title isn’t long enough, Reddit will not allow you to submit the post.

Also we updated some of the automod features to further try and combat the onslaught of bots and scammers. As they try to evolve ways around our blocks we will be continuing to update the automod. However, due to the rising number of guys that comment on those posts that do get through, having their accounts hijacked by the bots, we will be flagging the commenters, and once you have been flagged 3x you will be banned. It doesn’t take much effort to spot the scammers that manage to actually post so just report the post and then ignore it.

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u/TheBenevolentBull — 1 month ago

Updated post/title requirements: must read to post.

Due to far too many people choosing to not read the rules we have automated new post requirements to post. Starting immediately all post TITLES must include the following 4 items:

  1. Your age
  2. What you are looking for (ie m4f, mf4mf, etc)
  3. Location (and no just putting Georgia isn’t specific enough)
  4. A description of what you are looking for in a partner, and/or a description of what you have to offer.

There is now a minimum post title length implemented to enforce these guidelines be followed. Meaning if your title isn’t long enough, Reddit will not allow you to submit the post.

Also we updated some of the automod features to further try and combat the onslaught of bots and scammers. As they try to evolve ways around our blocks we will be continuing to update the automod. However, due to the rising number of guys that comment on those posts that do get through, having their accounts hijacked by the bots, we will be flagging the commenters, and once you have been flagged 3x you will be banned. It doesn’t take much effort to spot the scammers that manage to actually post so just report the post and then ignore it.

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u/TheBenevolentBull — 1 month ago

46/M/Lake Lanier area. Im looking for a new MF/F respectful, fun, friend with benefits based connection. I prefer she be 27 or older and preferably married. No single males.

Pictures posted with complete consent.

u/TheBenevolentBull — 1 month ago

46/M/Lake Lanier area. Im looking for a new MF/F respectful, fun, friend with benefits based connection. I prefer she be 27 or older and preferably married. No single males.

Pictures posted with complete consent

u/TheBenevolentBull — 1 month ago

There seems to be a literacy problem here.

My wife and I can both say we have seen it now on each of our personal accounts. No one is taking the time to read. Whether it is the rules, or thread titles or captions, it is all the same. Primarily single males just see a picture (or a place to post their own pic) and comment and dm away. This probables is t just a single male problem though as I’ve seen a plethora of “couples” fail to read as well. And I can’t imagine we are the only ones.

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u/TheBenevolentBull — 1 month ago

There seems to be literacy problem here.

My wife and I can both say we have seen it now on each of our personal accounts. No one is taking the time to read. Whether it is the rules, or thread titles or captions, it is all the same. Primarily single males just see a picture (or a place to post their own pic) and comment and dm away. This probables is t just a single male problem though as I’ve seen a plethora of “couples” fail to read as well. And I can’t imagine we are the only ones.

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u/TheBenevolentBull — 1 month ago

46/M/Lake Lanier area. Just curious to see who is out here. I prefer a respectful fun friend based connection. Must be 27 or older and preferably married.

No single males. I’m not here to share my friends with you.

u/TheBenevolentBull — 1 month ago