Looking for something genuine — married, not looking to separate
I’m 36, reasonably fit, outdoorsy, and usually happiest working on some kind of project or getting outside. I’m married, and I want to be upfront about that from the start.
My relationship with my wife has become more platonic than romantic, but I’m not looking to separate or blow up my marriage. I’m at a point where I’d like to meet a woman I genuinely connect with and see where that connection goes.
I’m not looking for a quick hookup or a one-night situation. I’d rather talk, get to know each other, build some trust and chemistry, and let things develop naturally. If that connection eventually becomes physical, great — but I don’t want to force that expectation from the first message.
I’m looking for someone who appreciates honesty, good conversation, some flirting and chemistry, and the possibility of building something that feels real, whatever shape that ultimately takes.
If that sounds like something you might be interested in, feel free to reach out. I’m happy to start with conversation and see if we click.
It would also be a bonus if, over time, things naturally developed into something involving my wife as well. We’d be open to the possibility of a genuine, consensual threesome/throuple dynamic if everyone involved was comfortable and interested, but there would be no pressure or expectation.