u/TheSearcherOfTruth

So I've tried getting into this lifestyle once before but found no success, i used to have a profile on swingingheaven but deleted it after never getting any matches. That made me give up for a while, although I still have interest in it. It does feel like being single guy in this lifestyle means that you're constantly overlooked for couples or that you're in competition with others. How can I improve? More than willing to answer any questions asked in the comments. [Edit]: id also like to ask how much importance does the body play in this? I have been rejected a few times because I only have 4 inches to work with? If thats the case should I give up altogether with this lifestyle?