Your longest dry spell?
What is your longest dry spell of not having sex or no sexual contact ? And what would you honestly think/ feel if you found out that the person your seeing.. hasn't had sex in years? Would this be a slight turn off?
Back story:
Im a 39yf and I haven't been with anyone (not even so much as a kiss), in over 6 years..
And until recently, I really haven't put much thought into it... but ive been building this bond with someone and .. im a bit nervous over it?! I don't know if this is going to be awkward for me, or did I forget thr mechanics of anything lol, hopefully this is like riding a bike, you never really forget how to ride it? (No pun intended).
And how much of a potential turn off might this be? After so many years.. its probably going to "take practice and work your way up to bigger things " type deal... (if you catch my drift..) and honestly, as a woman, I can't imagine this being a turn on for men my age?
So ladies, if you've experienced a similar situation, what was it like the first time dipping your toes back in?
And Men,
Whats your honest opinion here? would this be a turn off for you? - be brutally honest!
(Ps- the 6 year no fly zone , wasn't due to a lack of choices, it was due to a hard divorce and the lack of interest of ever wanting to experience such a profound pain like that again).
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