27F Hopeful Feedee looking for her Feeder Husband
Hi, everyone. Okay, so I’m actually kind of nervous about this. I’m a 27 Female Potential/Hopeful Feedee, looking for a 28-31 Male FA/Feeder.
I have been into Feedism for a long time, and the first time I remember discovering it was in that “Just Desserts” episode of Fairly Odd Parents, when Trixie Tang’s belt snapped and I thought “That looks so good, why can’t that be me?”.
However, I have been in and out of participating in it because I really want to stuff and gain, but due to societal expectations of women in my generation, I feel bad when I see my stomach in the mirror.
But I have decided that I would love to find my perfect match/soulmate who is also a FA/Feeder, and I feel my perfect match/soulmate would be into soft feedism in the same ways I am.
I am between 5’2” and 5’3”. Currently, I am around 190 pounds. At my heaviest I was in the 230-240 range. I am more into soft feedism, where the weight gain is about someone loving me enough to take care of me and keep me well fed. That being said, however, I am definitely turned on by the idea of getting bigger and also feeling the softness of my belly when I’m bigger.
My last relationship was abusive in several ways, so please understand that I will not tolerate abuse at all. I am looking for my future husband, preferably near me because I don’t want to do a LDR.
I am NOT into immobility or death feedism. I want to get somewhere in the 250-300 range, but might go higher or lower depending on my mobility with my height.
I am not going to be a slob or some dumb feedee who doesn’t think for herself. However, I am a messy eater (and I think gaining will make this more) and I get very gassy when I overeat. I also like the idea of my future husband having a well paying job (especially so we can afford all those meals and new clothes along the way), and loving to spoil me and ensure I don’t have to worry about anything (as I said, soft feedism in a way that means taking care of me, loving me, and keeping me well fed). I want my future husband to remind me I’m beautiful and even mention how I become more beautiful as I gain weight (even playing with my belly in front of a mirror while reminding me how beautiful I am and how the bigger I get, it just means there’s more of me for him to love) so that we can unwrite the societal expectations in my head and make it that I feel beautiful seeing my stomach in the mirror. I would want him to respect my thoughts and ideas, would help me feel beautiful by helping me with hygiene as I get bigger and need help in those areas, and would love to help me get all dolled up to go out to eat at a restaurant. I want someone who would stand up for me if people tried to comment negatively on my weight or how much I’m eating. Someone who would make me lots of luxurious meals but also take me out to restaurants to indulge as well. Someone who would encourage me to dress up and also want me to wear a bikini to the beach so he can admire my body.
Also, I'm super quirky, nerdy, and fun, and have several ideas for roleplay during feedings.
My current career pays okay, but is not great mainly because I’m in the entry level still. However I do have a dream career that I would love to pursue (and be successful at/make money from) that would allow me to stay at home, which I think would help with our progress. (Feel free to ask me about it if we get to chatting).
My ideal relationship would be that we date for a while and you make me feel comfortable before getting engaged. I need a trusting and honest relationship. Then, once we are married, and comfortable, we can begin the feedism aspect. However, I would like to have our first face-to-face meeting in person, and then once we’ve been on a few dates, perhaps we can go on a few dates to restaurants for me to let go/indulge so we can see if this is definitely going to work. I would like to have kids, maybe 4 or 5. And I think the pregnancies would be a good way for us to lean into my weight gain because of the cravings. I would actually like to lose weight during the dating and engagement so that I’m skinny in our wedding photos. The many reason for this is that I like the idea of us being able to see our progress in my weight gain overtime, with our wedding photos being the starting point.
I think it’s important to also state that I am from Ohio, I am politically conservative (but not in a problematic way, and not MAGA, willing to explain more if need be), and I am Catholic and that my religion is important to me, so we would have to be married in the church. Also, my family and friends don’t know about my desires for soft feedism, so I would prefer for us not to tell them, but keep the feedism as something just for us (which I also think makes it all that much more romantic and enjoyable).
My preference would be a guy who is tall and muscular and strong (so you’ll still be able to carry me as I gain), with brown hair and brown eyes, between the ages of 28-31 (28-31 age range is important to me because I will be 28 soon, and I usually don’t feel comfortable dating men younger than me, and 3 years older than me is my max age difference), preferably a Scorpio for compatibility reasons, and is in my home state, preferably nearby. I would like to stay in my hometown, at least for a few years into our marriage, as I have a few things going on here that I would need to sort out, but then I would be open to moving somewhere (preferably not a big city, but close enough to get to all the best restaurants, and would love to have a backyard pool that we can use all year and a beach nearby- which equals perks for you because that means seeing me in a bikini more often). I love the idea of me resting my head on your muscular chest as we sleep while you massage my belly, and you using my soft stomach as a pillow sometimes too. I also love the idea of belly massages, especially after big meals or stuffing. I love the idea of you playing with my belly and commenting on how beautiful I am and how my belly just makes me even more beautiful. I love the idea of having a Hobbit-like meal system for me (multiple meals a day). I love the idea of you making heavy rich meals for me to feast on and stuff myself, and then you massaging my stomach afterwards. I love the idea of us getting all dressed up and going to some restaurant where you encourage me to order everything I want on the menu and encourage me to indulge myself and eat more and shut down any judgmental looks or comments from waiters/waitresses or other customers. I love the idea of having a rule that we always have dessert after every meal, no matter how stuffed I am, and you encourage me to enjoy myself and indulge in the desserts. I love the idea of when I feel self-conscious while eating out and try to order less (or be more reasonable in meal size), you lovingly encourage me to get more food, to get everything I want. I love the idea of you randomly bringing home lots of fast food for me to gorge on and buying lots of groceries to make me meals and to always have snacks, sweets, and pop on hand. I love the idea of bursting belts and popping buttons, and I think it would be fun that sometimes during meals and stuffings, we put on clothes that are straining or starting to strain against the buttons because of my weight, and you help me feast/stuff until the buttons on the blouse pop, the snap on my pants bursts and the zipper comes undone, the belt snaps, and maybe even some seams rip. I love the idea of our future children being raised to understand that beauty and true love won’t be found in superficial things like being skinny. I love the idea of being your beautiful, pampered and plump feedee queen of a wife and going through this weight gain together in an enjoyable, beautiful, romantic, and loving way, so long as you respect me and my boundaries, and encourage my weight gain in a loving way.
So if this sounds like you and something you would want, let me know.