Just moved to the area north of Charlotte near Lake Norman, and looking for to make a long term bud. I first explored w/ a longtime friend but work has us on opposite sides of the country now. I want that dynamic again so giving this place a shot.
I want to find a long term bud who we can actually be friends and have some non sexual interests and meet up to hang out too is the vibe I'm looking for (and of course to fuck around too). But having some beers and watching the UFC (my preferred sport) together then fucking around after. Or going to get a good workout in together and helping each other de-stress after. Stuff like that. Also into video games and have a big retro collection.
Into gooning/edging for as long as we can with a bud, down with oral too. Looking for other "straight" guys near my age, and massive plus if you're married or in a LTR with a girl.
I can host occasionally but since I'm a dad it has to be when the family is out, so huge plus if you can host even occasionally as well.
My wife knows about my shenanigans and we wouldn't be hiding anything, she finds it hot (but no this is not a post looking for a MMF).
I'm 6'1, 190 lbs, white, and reasonably fit. 8" and cut. Corporate clean cut type, and don't use drugs outside of a little 420.