u/Throwaway-in-CA

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[B4T] Bi-curious MWM meets with old college friend, then starts receiving instructions from him and things in the mail... (dominance, and a bit of sissy humiliation play)

I hadn't seen my ol' dormmate for years, but he reached out to let me know that he'd be moving to my town.

I knew that he was either gay or bi when we were in college together, and that, I believe, fed some of my erotic fantasies over time, but I was straight; right?

I mean, I AM married... anyway, I agreed to meet up with him for a drink to catch up and welcome him to the town I lived in. Any awkwardness he had in college was long gone; he seemed handsome, had a certain charisma to him now, and was both fit and handsome.

Not that I was any slouch; but I guess you could say I was a "guy next door" kind of guy. Tall, thin, tone without being overtly muscular...

After about the second beer we shared together, and a shot, we spoke about relationships. He reminded me of the one time that we both masturbated to some porn together, but were both too embarrassed to ever talk about it again back then. He surprised me a little when he told me; "if I knew what I know and enjoy nowadays, then I could imagine we could have done so much more."

I let the comment slide, but found that cock twitched.

Towards the end of our visit at the bar together, he asked if he could have a business card; "you know; if I ever want to send you anything," and he had also repeated once or twice during our conversation that he thought I could learn to loosen up, if I followed the instructions he gave me.

"Sure," I said; "sometimes I'd like to know what, or be told what to do; too much of married life is having to be in control."

"That could be arranged," he told me and gave me a sly smile and a wink.

I didn't give our conversation any more thought until a week later when a package arrived to my work. When I opened the outer plain cardboard box inside was pink box with a pink bow on it, and a card; it was from my ol' college friend. The card read; "Hey, don't take this the wrong way, and if it's not interesting to you, then skip it, no harm, no foul. I did, however, pick up on some things last week that I think might interest you. There's a lot to explore in life, and I think this might be a good start for you. If you like what you find in the box, then be sure to use it and meet me at the bar again next Tuesday at 3pm."

When I opened the pink box I didn't immediately know what it was, but then it quickly hit me. He had sent me a pink chastity cage. There was another note inside the box with it; "you'd look lovely in this when you really want to let go and let others tell you what you're going to experience."

My cock jumped again and I felt a slight shiver run through me. Did this 'friend' know me better than I knew myself?

Although my palms were sweating a few days later, I found myself at the same bar, on Tuesday, at 3pm sitting there waiting for him...

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Thanks for reading my prompt.

This could be a fun sexual romp in which your character (the top) really shows my character what it is like to have to submit sexually to him, and for your character to play on the dynamic, add some erotic humiliation, name calling and certainly plenty of action too.

Limits: not into pain for pain's sake, blood. bathroom play.

Kinks (for this): some light bondage can be OK, and definitely some mind-fuck play in which my character's "strait-ness" is toyed with, played with, etc... some name calling, some humiliation

I enjoy paragraph or two exchanges back and forth on the direct messages here on Reddit, and I also like it when/as each of us describe not only the action being taken, but what our character is thinking/feeling as it happens.

Hope to hear from you; let's make a fun intense time for my (and thus your) character!

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u/Throwaway-in-CA — 12 days ago

New-to-me "flat-style" chastity device

Finally arrived in the mail; this is the preliminary photos. I was "hard" when these were taken.

Interesting how the hard-on has nowhere to go, so the bulge of it is behind the cage and balls. Difference being, that since the shaft and glands can't be stimulated, it doesn't matter.

Open to advice if I need to use a larger or smaller fitting ring, or tug ball skin through better (?) so there's less of the 'bulge' I mentioned when 'hard'?

Open to any comments/observations too to let me know how it looks and/or what this means having my healthy 7-inches locked up like this. Care to tell or remind me what this says about me, or my state-of-masculinity, and/or what I am or have become when caged? Open to see what most tickles my erotic brain since obviously there's something about this that makes me want to try this, yes?

u/Throwaway-in-CA — 16 days ago

Bought this one on Temu for $24.57.

Features: comes with several sizes of rings

Easy to get on and lock

Has a "vibrating" feature along with a remote control; rechargeable.

Pluses first; unlike chastity cages I bought in the past (several years ago), I find this one is really easy to put on, and doesn't tend to pinch any skin when doing so.

Minuses; the "vibration" that it does basically only effects the top middle of your cock's shaft in the tube part of the cage.

Although it has several different vibration settings, I (personally) did not find that stimulating that part of my cock would induce me to climax at all since it doesn't really vibrate your glands.

IF being "helpless" in a cage that is kinda vibrating is enough of a stimulus (even just a mental one) to cause you to ejaculate, then great for you. Me, I didn't find it to bring me there, nor did it keep me erect unless I was actively thinking about sex, looking at porn, or engaged sexually with someone while wearing it.

Basically though, I love how low-priced this is, how easy it is to put on, and the overall look suited me.

u/Throwaway-in-CA — 26 days ago