u/Time_Confidence_4889

PLEASE DELETE IF NOT ALLOWED. I’m located in the western part of PA. Saw a “pro” domme a few times. Then I transitioned to another domme that required a reference. I tried to use my past “pro domme” and she bailed. My question is now that I no longer have a “reference”, how do I I go about finding another reference? I’ve looked on tryst, Eros, fetlife. There are apparently no dommes that are taking “new clients” without a reference. So how does a newbie get into the circle now a days?