u/ToobularBoobularJoy_

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Some evenings I’ll walk in and just sit on the edge of my bed and let the room stay quiet for a second before I even move. I don’t turn anything on yet, I just let everything from the day unwind on its own. That pause helps me reset. After a bit I’ll put on Amaarae or JMSN low in the background and ease into my space.

I don’t rush things or try to force anything. I like when it builds naturally and you can feel where it’s going without needing to explain it. But I’m not just there either. I like being able to shift how things move, just in a quieter way. I like men who don’t feel like they have to take over everything… the ones who can relax and just be there.

And yeah… I like being behind you. I like seeing that moment where you stop holding everything together and just let yourself soften. There’s something about you bent forward like that, not trying to stay in charge, while I’m the one guiding everything without saying much. It’s subtle, but it says everything.

I like ccooookkkkiiieeessss mangovanillacaramelcream darkchocolateberryhazelnutcrunch coconutmaplehoneyglaze toastedpecanbutterdrizzle. I’m into animmmee like Belladonna of Sadness and The Tatami Galaxy. I sketch when my thoughts feel crowded, and food wise I usually go back to lamb kebab platter shrimp tempura roll and grilled filet mignon.

Being cheattedd changed how I move with people. I notice small things quicker now and I don’t ignore them. I don’t open up the same way I used to… but if it feels right, you’ll see that side of me.

me personally I love having a man who lets me use my strap on him and lets me explore his body as if it were my own I really love that power

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u/ToobularBoobularJoy_ — 22 days ago

Some nights I’ll come in and just sit sideways on my bed and stay still for a second before I even move. I don’t turn anything on, I just let everything from the day fall off on its own. That quiet pause resets me. After a bit I’ll put on Ravyn Lenae or Omar Apollo low in the background and ease into my space.

I don’t rush things or try to force anything. I like when it builds naturally and you can feel where it’s going without needing to explain it. But I’m not just there either. I like being able to shift how things move, just in a quieter way. I like men who don’t feel like they have to take over everything… the ones who can relax and just be there.

And yeah… I like being behind you. I like watching that moment where you stop trying to stay in charge and just let go. There’s something about seeing you bent forward, softer than you usually are, while I’m the one setting the pace without saying much. It’s calm, but it says everything.

I like ccooookkkkiiieeessss peachvanillahoneycream darkchocolateorangecrunch coconutmapleberryglaze toastedpecancaramelbutter. I’m into animmmee like Tekkonkinkreet and Kaiba. I sketch when my thoughts get loud, and food wise I usually go back to chicken gyro wrap spicy shrimp tacos and grilled ribeye steak.

Being cheattedd changed how I move with people. I notice small things quicker now and I don’t ignore them. I don’t open up the same way I used to… but if it feels right, you’ll see that side of me.

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u/ToobularBoobularJoy_ — 22 days ago

Some nights I’ll come in and just sit at the edge of my bed with the room still dim, not even moving yet. I don’t turn anything on, I just let everything from the day slow down on its own first. That quiet second clears my head. After a bit I’ll put on Kelela or Sampha low in the background and ease into my space.

I don’t rush things or try to force anything. I like when it builds naturally and you can feel where it’s going without needing to explain it. But I’m not just there either. I like being able to shift how things move, just in a quieter way. I like men who don’t feel like they have to take over everything… the ones who can relax and just be there.

And yeah… I like being behind you. I like seeing that shift where you stop trying to hold everything together and just lean into it. There’s something about you bent forward, softer than you usually are, and I’m the one setting the pace without saying much. It’s quiet, but it means something.

I like ccooookkkkiiieeessss strawberryhoneymaplecream darkchocolatepistachiocrunch vanillacoconutberryglaze toastedpecancaramelbutter. I’m into animmmee like Mind Game and Sonny Boy. I sketch when my thoughts get loud, and food wise I usually go back to lamb shawarma platter shrimp pad thai and grilled porterhouse steak.

Being cheattedd changed how I move with people. I notice small things quicker now and I don’t ignore them. I don’t open up the same way I used to… but if it feels right, you’ll see that side of me.

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u/ToobularBoobularJoy_ — 22 days ago