u/Typical-Dig4734

My penis is 4.3 x 3.9 (sad life) and my libido is currently low so I dont get really aroused (porn problem), trying to work on fixing my sexuality right now, which was also suggested by a member of this subreddit a couple months ago on my last post. I am mentioning this because 1) Might be wise to delay any PE before my dick is healthy and 2) I really really really hope to gain some soze once I can get aroused properly.

But regardless, as you can imagine I am insecure about my size. I dont necessarily want a big penis, but something big enough such that it is clearly atleast average or average minus would be nice. If a girl rejects me because of this then, then my guess is she is very sex oriented which is not necessarily a bad thing although can be ime, but either way likely incompatible with me and the type of personality I am likely to date is unlikely to be like this.

You can say my initial "goal" would be 4.8x4.2-4.3, but I am also aware that many girls will be okay with my size if my skills are good, although it may not be their first choice. But at my size, many otherwise decently compatible women might reject me due to size, which probably won't happen at 4.8x4.2 ( if it does thats okay I am actually average like within one sd). This creates a problem where I don't want to ruin my dick, I am anyways squeamish but I do want to get rid of this fucking insecurity and a bigger size would help a fucking lot.

I would like to stick to the two medically approved devices for use - traction devices and medical pumps. From my research last time these pumps can generate gains even when not exceeding the medically recommended zone. But I just wanted to know your thoughts like is it easy to gain this much and would it require significant effort. Also I am unfortunately a grower so would like a decent increase in my flaccid as well. How can I do this? Am I missing big due to eQ from porn?

Thanks for reading!

1)We make a group with willing participants - big and small and everything in between.

2)We calculate the mean cock length, anyone 20% or more below the mean becomes a loser (to help ensure that a mid level alpha doesnt lose to a bunch of high alphas)

3. Anyone with a cock higher than the mean becomes a winner. Winners get to punish the losers. Possible punishments include, but are not limited to:

A)Denial: Betas deserve to suffer to reinforce their low self image. They must not be allowed to gain the immense pleasure from Cumming. If a beta accidentally goes over the edge, he must ruin it completely and honestly (letting go AND contracting pelvic floor to prevent contractions- this helps make sure no horniness is lost and delivers close to zero pleasure.). Also, obviously all the cum must be eaten (after gargling a bit, or maybe brush teeth with the cum and leave it there).

B) Edging : Winners can make the losers edge as much as they want. Losers should be frustrated, anxious and horny. Punishment for cumming - see part A.

C)Ball torture : Being smaller means your balls dont product enough testosterone. Hence punishing the losers' balls is at the discretion of the Winners. For example, hanging a weight and doing jumping Jack's.

D) Clothing control / public play : Winners can require losers to, for example wear panties at all times. Tasks/rules such as keep your panties a little on display above your jeans can be enforced within reason. Embarrassment is not an excuse but harming regular social or work life might be.

E) Exhibitionist tasks : Being naked in front of a window, running naked a certain distance or performing naked dares at the discretion of the Winners.

F) Piss punishments : If within limits, piss on face or even drink it. Can be made extra cruel by requiring loser chugs piss (no sipping loser!)

G) Watching hypno videos.

Suggest more ideas and share your rhoughts!