Is it more common for women to do this if they were giving out hints to that guy, or could they just be making blunt conversation cuz they are comfortable? Its a mix between staying friendly in chat and just going all out naughty with them. Curious what the women have to say on this.
I don’t know what flair is appropriate for this situation. I (30M) started chatting with this girl (36F) on reddit about a month ago through a common subreddit. I DMd her on one of her posts and she replied, then ever since we’ve been chatting. Our topics are pretty casual these days, simple things like “hows your day going?” “How was work” are some of the more common chats we start with. We share photos of our food, our work, and our travels on occasion. Its been pretty chill and I get the vibe she enjoys chatting with me.
Not too long ago I started browsing the nsfw page, alasjuicy, and stumbled across a post she had commented on. Turns out shes active there and is pretty wild. She talks about m*sterb*ting and her kinks which are wild stuff and did turn me on a lot. I never got this sort of vibe when I was chatting with her, she seemed pretty innocent.
Since then I’ve been fantasizing alot about her, and I can’t help but paint a different picture when we chat. I have not come off in a a bastos way to her and I am keeping chats the same chill vibe as usual. I am just scared of what she might react if I bring it up, would she be into it considering we get along or would she be creeped out.