u/UnderstandingFun9775

men...do you look at the butthole?

my favorite position, personally, is doggy. but i'm always afraid that my man is staring directly into my asshole. like looking into my soul through my brown eye. idk why, it makes me feel self conscious. do y'all actively look or try to avoid or just don't care? edit- finally had the courage to ask my man himself. the verdict, along with so many of y'all, YES. he very happily looks. i'm gonna ask him for a thumb next time. 🥰

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u/UnderstandingFun9775 — 22 hours ago

What’s the hottest thing you’ve ever seen in real life?

For me, it was a (platonic) friend drunkenly riding a dildo to cheer me up. Never did anything else and didn’t speak of it after.

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u/UnderstandingFun9775 — 4 days ago

What’s your biggest sexual “swing and miss?”

Mine was when I was a frosh in college, and I was pet sitting for one of my parents’ neighbors. I thought he was into me, so I tried the “naked woman” when he returned from his trip, laying in his bed waiting for him.

He...was not into me. He freaked out when he saw me and basically just yelled at me. I felt so stupid.

What’s your ill advised attempt at love/sex?

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u/UnderstandingFun9775 — 10 days ago

Men- can you actually feel when a woman has an orgasm?

Been with my partner for almost 10 years and I think more than half of the time he can’t tell when I’ve had an orgasm (which is every time we have sex!)

slightly confusing because to me it’s not only obvious with my increase in vocalization- but also the contractions. I know from past experience with masturbating that yes, I’ve absolutely, 100% felt the contractions / tightness / flexing going on around my fingers when I’ve started to orgasm. but when we have sex, he often says something after I’ve already finished, in a way to encourage me to cum and I’m like.. I just did?? Didn’t you feel it?! And he says no! He’s been my only sexual partner so idk if this is… something men generally feel or can sense without the girl specifically announcing that she’s cumming / about to come. I already thought men could feel the muscles tightening?

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u/UnderstandingFun9775 — 14 days ago

Does anyone else like the idea of cumming multiple times but give up after you cum once?

When masturbating do you ever think "fuck I'm horny, after I bust I think I'm just gonna keep going and cum again" but when you do cum you're like "actually never mind I'm tired and not horny now"

I always tell myself I'm gonna jerk off multiple times but I never actually want to do it when the time comes.

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u/UnderstandingFun9775 — 18 days ago