men...do you look at the butthole?
my favorite position, personally, is doggy. but i'm always afraid that my man is staring directly into my asshole. like looking into my soul through my brown eye. idk why, it makes me feel self conscious. do y'all actively look or try to avoid or just don't care? edit- finally had the courage to ask my man himself. the verdict, along with so many of y'all, YES. he very happily looks. i'm gonna ask him for a thumb next time. 🥰