So I am happily married and my husband will randomly out of the blue bring up someone he knows or someone that we saw in public, always a guy and be like "I bet he'd fuck the shit out of you" and every time I just about spit up my drink and in my head I am like "wtf?" like why do guys do this. He's not a cuck but every so often he wants me to know that "so and so" could beat my pussy up if they wanted to.
So I am at my families cabin/cottage because it is supposed to be nice this week and I thought why the hell not and everyone came up (parents, uncles, and cousins) and of course I brought hubby and our family and I thought no one was home and I was taking a shower forgot to bring my towel into the bathroom and I get out and walk out the bathroom door and boom my two uncles while I'm naked and all wet from the shower. Ugh.
I was at the Doctors today and I have a male Doctor and he was full on staring at my boobs (yes I have big boobs) but like this was just one instance. My husbands friends do it all the time and I have no idea what to do at this point. I feel like venting about it won't do a whole lot but at this point I am not sure what to do about it. Am I overreacting or should I actually stand up for myself? I'm just out of ideas so I'll take any advice at the moment.
So my husband and I have been together for 10 years (not all married) but dating nonetheless and we took an 8 month break from one another to try to figure stuff out and to find ourselves individually again, and we did that. We did happen to see other people during this break and we both agreed that it was a good thing to see where our hearts and heads were at. The thing is he knew who I was with and so did I for him yet all of a sudden, he is mad that I was sexual with these men when he was sexual with those women but I'm not mad about it. I am going crazy.