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Where are all the TamBrahm baddies? Younger the better!
In town for a few days. Travelling for business. 6 Feet. Fit. NRI. Married. Staying in a plush hotel!
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 6 hours ago
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[41M] What is your favorite position Chennai?
The title - Mine is doggy (refer second picture)
Hit me up if you are sophisticated, fun and adventures yet wish to explore your slutty side in a safe environment.
I am 41 Married Entrepreneur. In Chennai on a business trip and like always wish to mix business with pleasure
PS: A lot more information about me in bio and the pinned post
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 2 days ago
[41M] Whats your favorite position?
The title. For me it is always a variant of doggy - classic, standing or prone bone! I love entering from behind, pounding my lady hard as I admire the ass in full glory!
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 3 days ago
[41M] Your side chick should be...
hornier than your main chick - that's the primary reason you stepped out after all
hot enough to get you an instant erection
flexible to try new positions and places and experiment in general
And more importantly, you should have more than one side chick ;)
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 5 days ago
[41M] Cheating is more about logistics than loyalty
I have been in this lifestyle for about 5 years and have met a couple of dozen women during this time. Here is what I have observed:
- Most married women place a higher priority on safety, trust, and anonymity than on great sex or physical size.
- It is easier to engage when traveling due to the psychological comfort of being in a city where few people know you, staying in a hotel where you can host, and having no immediate rush to return home.
- Simply traveling alone isn't enough; traveling frequently to the same city is what works. In most cases, a connection built on the first trip fully matures by the third.
- Most married individuals experience sexual frustration due to a mismatch in libido, often driven by poor lifestyle choices and stress.
- Many people abstain from cheating primarily out of fear of consequences. If those concerns are removed, the barrier to action drops significantly.
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 6 days ago
[41M] TamBrams are tigresses in bed
I was in Chennai last week and it was an eye-opener for me. Always thought Tamils are docile and conservative breeds. Especially the women. But one short trip changed the PoV!
Think the suppression at home resulting from conservative and strict parents results in sluttiness in bed. Come to think of it that's true for most societies where women are suppressed. Another classic example is marwaris!
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 7 days ago
[41M] Any Tam Brahm baddie who wants to be humiliated?
The title. I am 41, 6 feet, fit and entrepreneur from Singapore. NRI. Here in Chennai on a business trip. Staying in a plush hotel in Anna Salai.
Not into men or paid service.
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 9 days ago
[41M] Tam Brahm Baddies!
The title. I am fit, 6 feet, NRI entrepreneur. Staying at a plush hotel in Central Chennai and here for a couple of days!
Tam Brahm baddies, hit me up. Others, please wait!
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 9 days ago
[41M] 6 feet. Fit. Entrepreneur. NRI. In Chennai on a business trip. Can host
Keen on meeting interesting females/couples - Tam Brahms and North Indians preferred. Also, not into paid sex!
Hit me up if you wish to explore further!
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 10 days ago
[41M] 6 Feet. Fit. NRI. Entrepreneur in Chennai. Looking for action
The title. Keen on adventurous women in town. Staying in a plush hotel in central chennai. Happy to host! Open to couples too!
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 13 days ago
[40M] Fuck while hormones and age is by your side. Even though your partner is not!
The title. Tomorrow never comes. Even if it would, it is likely to be accompanied by lower sex drive. So fuck while you can and have the drive. Don't wait for your regular partner to align. Go all out and live your life.
Once I realized the impermanence of sex drive, I stopped waiting for my wife to get into mood (which is a rare phenomenon) and have been meeting interesting and adventurous women. Because, fuck while you still can!
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 22 days ago
[40M] why do you prefer casual sex?
The title. I like it more because there are usually no restraints, no judgment and one can be true to one's instincts in bed.
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 29 days ago
[40M] 10 hard facts about women
- Cuck fantasies are that of husbands and not wives.
- Women prefer threesome/gangbangs over spreading legs for others in front their husbands (as part of swaps/cucking)
- When a older woman fucks a younger man, he is a stop gap arrangement and is treated like a toy
- Women rate safety/trust/privacy over bigger dicks
- All women have a slutty side - unfortunately most husbands are unable to create a safe space for them
- Blowjobs are good for second round of sex - never the first
- Anal sex is overrated - never be the guy who takes her anal virginity. Be the second/third guy
- Intimacy and connection is important for women - they don't spread legs for a man who just wants to fuck without investing in them
- Humiliation is a kink and is best confined to bed. Outside of it, women expect and deserve respect and care
- Good women are hard. Unless of course they are ovulating
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 1 month ago
[40M] Men have cuck fantasies, women have threesomes/gangbangs
The title. A woman part of the cuck setting does it because of convenience - husband gets new dicks, takes care of logistics and safety. It is better option than fucking the same old dick of husband.
But give half a chance, most of them would want the husband to be out of the room or not involved at all!
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 1 month ago
[40M] Is it common for men/women to gift sex partners on birthdays/anniversaries
The title. It could be an interesting idea in an open marriage setting but not sure if it could be a way to introduce your partner to the kinky world of threesomes/swaps and gangbangs!
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 1 month ago
[40M] Increase chances of getting laid. A playbook for men
After years of navigating dating and hookups through different phases of life, I have noticed that a lot of online advice misses practical, real-world mechanics. As a 40yo entrepreneur, 6 feet, fit, and with a fair amount of experience under my belt, I have seen what consistently works and what trips guys up.
If your goal is to increase your success rate and build mutual chemistry, here are the core principles to focus on.
- Position Your Strengths Subtlely Leverage key traits like fitness, composure, and maturity, but let them show naturally through your lifestyle and photos. Avoid bragging or over-listing credentials, which instantly kills attraction.
- Lead with Patience, Not Urgency Desperation is an immediate turn-off. Focus on building quick rapport and calm assurance rather than rushing the outcome. Moving at a relaxed pace sets you apart from most men.
- Filter Hard and Fast Protect your time by ignoring low-karma or brand-new profiles that are usually bots or flakes. Run a quick voice call before meeting to confirm chemistry and authenticity.
- Target the Right Match Align with partners whose lifestyle and stakes match yours. For low-friction arrangements, meeting other busy or non-single individuals often leads to higher mutual alignment and fewer complications.
- Plan Logistics in Advance Build comfort by proposing a low-pressure public daytime spot for the initial meeting. For the actual encounter, invest in a quality hotel venue to ensure privacy, comfort, and smooth execution without last-minute scrambling.
- Set Clear Expectations Early Be direct about your emotional availability and your expectations. Upfront honesty filters for women who want the exact same dynamic and saves both sides time.
- Deliver a Great Experience Prioritize her satisfaction. Finding a reliable, compatible partner requires effort, so delivering a great time turns a single encounter into a long-term, hassle-free situation.
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 1 month ago
[40M] My secret of the balanced life!
The title. Life has gotten better and I am at a lot more peace with myself after I started engaging outside. Surprisingly, my relationship with the wife has improved too!
I couldn't have articulated it better than this! All credits to Xavier uncle!
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 1 month ago
[40M] Hot take: The smaller the boobs, the more the tantrums
The title. This has been my observation of being around with so many women around me over the years. Not sure it is their lack of confidence or insecurity which they try to cover up by way of tantrums but the trend is very evident.
Would love to know your thoughts
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 1 month ago
[40M] Promiscuity is not just confined to Reddit
Every married friend of mine is either already cheating or has been considering it. Everyone has a different motivation - promotion, thrill or business. But all of them started because of sexual frustration. The sexual frustration resulting from a dead bedroom or vanilla and infrequent sex
Wondering if it is just common in my circle ?
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 1 month ago
[40M] The Slutty Delhi Hotel Redemption
The title. I am in Delhi this week. Staying in the same hotel I stayed in last time along with my wife. We barely had sex during our trip last time. But this time, I railed a 20YO in the same hotel. It feels like sluttiest redemption ever.
u/Vegetable-Recover547 — 1 month ago