u/Visible_Affect4059

Am I reading too much into this, or should I just ignore it?

So here's a little background.

I'm a 24-year-old guy, single but engaged. My family consists of my mother (55) and my two younger brothers (22 and 16). Our father passed away about 10 years ago. These days, my older younger brother and I are the ones earning for the household.

We live in a small single-story 6-marla house. My mom isn't in the best health anymore, so she can't handle all the household chores herself. About a year ago, we hired a maid who's around 18 years old. She comes for about an hour every morning (roughly 8:30–9:30) to clean the house while my mom prepares breakfast.

A few days ago, I was sleeping when she came to clean my room. I woke up around 9:30, and while she was cleaning, I felt my foot brush against her. I assumed it was just an accident and didn't think much of it.

Today something similar happened again. My hand was hanging slightly off the bed, and as she was mopping, it brushed against her. I woke up, saw it was her, turned over, and went back to lying down. A little later, I felt my foot brush against her again while she was working.

The thing is, today I happened to wake up after having a sexual dream, so I know my thoughts weren't exactly neutral. Because of that, I started wondering if I was imagining things or reading too much into completely accidental contact.

I don't want to make someone uncomfortable, especially since she's just doing her job. At the same time, I can't tell whether I'm overthinking this because of my own state of mind.

So I'm looking for honest opinions.

Do you think this is almost certainly just accidental contact because she's cleaning around the bed, and I should stop reading into it? If you were in my position, would you simply ignore it, make sure you're out of bed before she arrives, or do something else?

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u/Visible_Affect4059 — 15 hours ago