u/Visible_Bag_4040

Not sure if this the right sub but this has been bugging me since last week when I visited this Health Clinic somewhere in QC.

I was there para lang sana sa normal na tests (HIV and other 2). So it was done naman as usual and thankfully nonreactive. Then we had a convo about my concerns about STDs and other communicable diseases since Im kinda new into all these things and gusto ko maging safe. He eksplained to me na there are some na no symptoms or asymptomatic and thats when he suggested to have me checked throughly para daw sure and for my peace of mind. Medyo mahaba naging usapan namin kasi parang ayaw ko nung una since nahihiya ko and blood tests lang talaga goal ko for my visit pero ending pumayag na rin ako since andon na rin naman ako sa clinic and honestly i felt like he kinda convinced me into it. I trusted din naman since the clinic is nice and clean and the guy na assigned to me looks professional and clean din.

So this nurse / health worker proceeded with the eksamination by having me stand in front of him while siya nakaupo and asked me to lower down my pants. Binaba ko siya eksakto lang to reveal my thing but the 1st 🚩is he pulled down my pants and boksers down even more hanggang sa tuhod ko. Medyo nailang na ko non pero I let it go thinking na baka ganon talaga. Then normal eksam like kinapa kapa and press niya the balls, groin area, shaft and head and tell me kung may pain and i said wala naman. He also eksamined my bokser looking daw for signs of discharge and wala naman din nakita.

Then itong part na to not sure if SOP in eksamining genitals for STDs but he started stroking my thing for a couple of times then pipigain niya ung head. Thats when my thing reacted and natatawa/nahihiya pa kong sinabi sa kanya na "sorry" since di ko napigilan. Tumawaa rin naman siya and said its normal. He just needs to make sure na walang discharge. It went like that for a couple of minutes, stroke/pump then piga ung head and i was fully erected that time na until he got satisfied na wala akong symptom of discharge.

After that, kala ko tapos na as I pulled up my boksers and pants but then he suggested na i should have a penile swab. I have no idea what that was specifically pano ginagawa. He eksplained na he will swab lang daw my penis to check sa lab para we are 100% sure na walang bacteria or anything. I declined nung una since di ko alam ano yon and tinanong ko pa di ba nakikita yon sa urinalysis? He then eksplained some other things medically related but the point it mas okay ang penile swab compared sa Urinalysis. Ending is I also agreed to it or more like got convinced by him to do the procedure he suggested and lumabas siya ng room to get some things.

Pagpasok niya he started to talk to me more in a friendlier manner like first time ko raw but but tbh, most of his remarks I found unnecessary like san ako nagg-gym, Top or Bottom ba akk, and he even complimented my size.

After the preparations, pinahiga niya na ko this time, and even assisted me as im pulling down my boksers and pants! Before he started, he removed his gloves and said na mahirap daw hawakan ung swab pag may gloves. He then started stroking me again til i got an erection. He said na mas madali raw pag malaki ulo like mine since mas malaki rin ang butas. That time I didnt pay too much attention to what he was saying since kabado ako tbh and i didnt look at what hes doing, same thing na di ako tumitingin pag kinukuhaan ng dugo. And dude, masakit siya pero kaya naman tiisin. He just keeps telling me to inhale and ekshale. Then nung akala ko tapos na, he said need pa raw isa but this time di na raw ipapasok. Di ko nakita maayos pero parang pinutol niya yung stick yata yon and he continued to stroke me and mas mabilis na this time since he needs daw a sample and i think i precum a bit and yun ang swinab niya (di ko totally nakita since im not looking).

After that, he instructed me to get up na and even patted me in the shoulder and asked me masakit ba raw first time smilingly. The Clinic will send the results daw after a week and I left the room and Clinic a bit uneasy.

Sa mga may similar eksperience sa penile swab or sa mga nurse or health professionals here, is that really how its done?

And may other Health Clinics ba kayo marecommend around QC na maybe I can visit if ever need ko ulit magpa test?