u/WifeMotherNurse

I’ve been asked this question a few times. Most women have been to bachelorette parties where they’ve had male strippers. I’ve been to 3. We all know that sometimes at these parties girls get crazy and do things with these hot sexy men. Same thing with men at bachelor parties we all usually look the other way and pretend nothing happened right? In my younger days I was taken in the bathroom and fucked by a stripper. But I was single so no real shame lol a little playful banter but no actual shame. As a married woman I’ve played around a bit with strippers. I was surrounded by close friends and family so I had to behave. But I ask what would be considered cheating?
Obviously if I sucker the guys dick and bent over and got railed in front of everybody that would be cheating of course lol. But is playing around with the guy cheating? Here’s a list of things I did and you decide if I crossed the line. And keep in mind other married women at this party did just as much as me lol
3 strippers one was not that great one was descent and one guy was fucking hot with a big ol dick. So obviously my attention went to that guy.

1. Rubbed his chest and licked his abs
2. Squeezed and smacked his butt
3. Held and played with his big dick for a few seconds
4. He pulled up my dressed and spanked my bare ass
5. He bent me over and pulled my hair and dry fucked me for 5 seconds
6. He smacked his big dick on my head
7. He laid me down and sat on my face. Cheeks spread bare ass directly on my face. Made me extremely wet

Now considering I am a horny slut deep down. I feel like I was pretty tame. I didn’t actually do anything sexual other than what was presented to me and others too. I had some people give me looks of course. But I feel I didn’t really cross a line.
Am I wrong? Would you consider that cheating? If you were my husband and found out would you be angry? Assuming you don’t get turned on by that sort of thing. Just curious

One thing I’ve learned about myself and my sexual past is I was always turned on by being a man’s sexual object. I have self confidence and great self worth but in bed sexually I always got turned on by being used as a fuck doll for alpha guys. From my college days to my ex boyfriends I was always the submissive slut that the guys would fuck and use however they wanted.
To me that was such a massive turn on that made the sex a million times better.

For example, I told the story about being a frat houses fuck toy for a while. I remember alot of the guys after they were done fucking me would make me spread my legs and they would take a picture of my beat up pussy. Sometimes with cum leaking out or sometimes just a pile of wet roast beef lol. They wanted to take a picture of the damage they did. Sometimes I’d be on my back and I’d spread my legs or hold my legs up and they would take a picture or they would bend me over and I spread my cheeks. If they fucked me in my ass they would make me spread my ass and show the damage to my butthole. You get the point.

That turned me on sooo much because I know damn well they all showed each other those pics. The thought of that was soo hot to me knowing they would fuck me anyway they wanted and then they would probably be like “dude look what I did to ****** check out her pussy or check out her asshole” lol I assume that’s how guys talk. The thought of being a bunch of guys little slut just always turned me the fuck on and it carried over. Every boyfriend I had I was always soo submissive and did whatever he wanted and loved it if he took pics and videos because I know he probably shower people.
I always went after the alpha type man if he was an alpha type with muscles and a big dick forget it he had total control over me and I loved it.
I married a more beta type man with a small dick and vanilla sex. He’s a good man and treats me well but obviously as you can tell I’m sexually frustrated. Haha

I could have a field day with this subreddit lol.
So back in college I was very slutty. Is what it is lol but it’s the truth. A lot of guys in this particular frat fucked me. Sometimes multiple guys in one night and a few 3somes. I was one of their “jump offs” and I enjoyed being a slut for them. Turned me on and made me feel sexy. I let them have their way with me and it was all good they were respectful lol for the most part I guess. They would sometimes record us fucking or take pics and I didn’t mind as long as my face wasn’t exposed lol even though everybody knew who fucked who it wasn’t a secret I was this frats little fuck doll.

So anyways sometimes the pics would get passed around. This was before AI and social media wasn’t as big but still pics would make their way around of course. It turned me on in a way knowing it’s me. This one picture in particular really turned me on because it became a famous picture for that frat. This one guy who was really sexy and had a large dick fucked me and his friend (who also fucked me lol) took a picture of him with his dick down my throat and his balls resting on my eyes and his sexy hairy asshole was all wet because I just ate it. On my forehead his friend put a frat sticker. They used to put stickers on our foreheads or asses or wherever they want when they fucked us. So the picture became pretty famous. My face a cock down my throat balls on my eyes and a wet hairy asshole and the frat sticker lol. It turned me on knowing that was me and everybody saw it.

Now the kicker is….. my now husband went to the same college… same era I knew him but we weren’t dating at the time. So there’s a good chance my husband has seen that picture and has no idea that was his now wife in that “famous” picture lol.
Now that turns me on alot