u/WitchQweenofAngmar

Id like to share a story.

Once a man was asking where all the moms with “real kids” were in a fincuck space. When I questioned why tf a Domme’s child(ren) would be coming up in a kink space, I was downvoted and attacked. While the “proud mamas” lined up to comment about their children (genders AND ages). Apparently the problem was I “treated him like PDFile for asking a question”….. ABOUT CHILDREN!

This is redddit findom 101 where the only responsibility we have, as women, is to keep the menfolk happy and comfortable, even when they’re violent, even when they’re p3dobaiting, even when they’re abusive.

Denying the existence of predators and treating men that WE DONT KNOW FROM A HOLE IN THE WALL like innocent, harmless little dweebs doesn’t keep us safe. Silencing women via deleting/locking comments & posts talking about serial abusers doesn’t keep us safe. Removing posts that include usernames of dangerous subs doesn’t keep us safe. Deleting comments of women defending themselves against men that call us cunts and whores and ugly and whatever else they can think of doesn’t keep us safe. AND BULLYING WOMEN WHO SPEAK UP DOESNT FUCKING KEEP US SAFE. It keeps ABUSIVE men safe.

It creates a culture of harm and subservience. A culture that tells women “make it sexy or soft or stfu”

Even the advice given by “experienced Reddit Dommes” is harmful. Telling bby Dommes to NOT BRING UP MONEY IN YOUR FIRST 5 MESSAGES, to build connection with your subs FIRST, that chatting before tribute is normal and necessary. That you should be sending verification videos to anyone who asks. All this does is put these (already vulnerable) women at a higher risk of being exploited.

Let me make it clear,

Men who run findom subreddits & require nude verification ARE predators.

Men who threaten to doxx you ARE predators.

Cashmasters who prey on bby Dommes under the guise of helping ARE predators.

Serial baiters ARE predators.

Subs looking for “hot college brats” when they’re 30+ are predators.

The anti-findom losers who lurk in our spaces being abusive af ARE predators.

And you’re free to talk about it here in SCUM because THATS HOW WE KEEP EACH OTHER SAFE!

And came back like a day or two later posting about how all the Dommes that reached out to him just ended up talking him into sending?

The ethical girlies are soooo SCUM coded 🤭