u/Wrong-Inevitable4001

Hi all
I am 23M

Hobbies/stuff I like to do:
- Binge watching TV shows, anime and Movies (a serial binge watcher IK)
- I like to read though that’s been irregular of late.
- YouTube
- Write random stuff
- A foodie (of course a non vegetarian)
- Yap

I would like a FLR if possible but I think it’s really tough, I wrote all my hobbies because I am not just looking for just a “session” (I don’t like calling it that) yes, of course there can be a lot of stuff but I also would like to have stuff we can talk about, discuss beyond the physical or just kinks.

Limits:
- Anything gore or disgusting like scat
- Anything too permanent or would show in public

Kinks:
- I have thought a lot about it and believe in trying stuff at least once to see if I’d like it or not. I am pretty open to that way (pun intended lol? I am really not tho). As long as there’s mutual understanding and a conversation beforehand.

Ideally again a FLR but as far the ratio goes it could be really tough. Again, apologies that I cannot support findom at the moment but what I lack I can make it up in gestures, obedience and willingness to learn?

DMs are always open for interesting conversations!

Hi I am 23 hoping that I am lucky enough to find a Domme or a FLR in NCR, I know it starts online and I am more than willing to do it all and jump through all the hoops!

Not at a stage in life where I can afford findom, apologies for the same.

Limits: Anything disgusting like scary
Open to a lot of kinks and curious about trying a lot of them!

Even if I can’t find one DMs are open for interesting conversations!

Of course there should be an overlap of kinks and limits and mutual understanding but are there common hobbies as well that you guys enjoy with your respective subs or Dommes?

I personally am a foodie, enjoy cooking, binge watching TV shows, movies and anime!

If you do comment please let me know if you do bond over hobbies and stuff and/or your favourite TV shows and Anime we can bond over.

Hi,
Firstly I work in a night shift so this is like my usual sleeping time.

Now, I am looking for a domme but that’s not what all I can call it as ultimately it would require 2 people to reach a decision and there’s so much more like it’s not just “session” as people call so blatantly call it there’s so much more involved in between I believe. So much teasing and denial and foreplay and just total giving up of control and I don’t want it to be a session I want it to last, multiple days weeks, weekends, months, but yes I am hopeful that one day I shall find the right person.

I am 23, quite new in my career so I don’t think I can afford Findom lifestyles which again I am not sure if it is my kink. We can for sure discuss it later on or see if it would be.

I am even unsure if this is the right way to approach someone yet but yes I am open for good conversations a healthy kink discussion and any guidance you might have for a young new soul.

Should I be posting about kinks/limits and stuff openly? Or is that again unsolicited information?

Hi, so I do have a few questions please do answer any that you can. These are of course based on my understanding of it all, observing this subreddit and well life (lol)?

Questions:

1. I see a lot of guys posting looking for a domme with their bodies and well nudes which could fall under the category of unsolicited pictures. Of course if it works for them or that’s how they express good for them, to each their own but that’s not the correct way, right? It can’t be (maybe for me only)

2. I was approached by someone in DMs which I am thankful for but I forgot to mention that essentially I would want something IRL as well. I am all for building things online but IRL is where it should lead to.
   So questions here are:
   2a. Has someone (either sub/Domme) found someone here?
   2b. If so, was it online then offline?
   2c. Is it just always online and that’s how it works here?

3. I still wonder about being a switch or not? I mean I was never either in the first place I am just attracted towards Femdom.
   Question here is: The best way is to just try and find out, right?

4. What’s personally worked for you? Or would work?

5. I was also asked that maybe I don’t need a mistress and should find a dom gf?
   I mean essentially if we are talking of a dynamic and a monogamous one wouldn’t it be the same? Or there’s a difference and I am missing something?

Thanks for the responses in anticipation and as always DMs are welcome and always open for good conversations.

Since I made a post yesterday I’ll try and be active here. I do feel this community is helping and well what do I have to lose?

So I’ll start with I am 23M (very new to being 23 not M lol), I always thought I’d be a switch balancing it all, even when I was doing the deed I thought I’d enjoy both but I enjoyed giving up control more. Everything and every bit of it and I have just been into Femdom and everything to do with it.

I don’t even watch anything anymore Femdom just gets me. Does that mean I am not a switch and a sub? But I do feel I’d enjoy that too so would that make be sub leaning switch?

The major question I have is a lot of people are into Findom which of course I don’t have a problem with, to each their own but I have just started my career and trying to navigate it all and handling stuff and not into a position to be into findom which also is not really my kink.

So how do I find someone? Or tell all this? Or like in general navigate and sort these feelings?

Let’s chat and seee where it goess! Possibly a switch

Hey all!
It’s my birthday Dms open for kinks and good conversations! Let’s chat!

Hey I am from delhi and it’s my birthday today! Been peeping here for a long time but finally got the courage to post and finally ask!
Dms are always open for interesting conversations!!