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Long story short - There is a girl I know for a couple of years already. Since like 3 years we keep on with the meeting while having each other's life settled with different people, although it's painfully less regular.
The thing is - She claims to be asexual, as she is mostly interested in hard sadism to the extent she is running the actual profile on the fetlife to meet with the masochists.
With me it's always been a kind of exception - I have always been free to devour her feet on any way imaginable, though she only remains strict over the teeth scratching against the skin which seems fair.
At the very beginning of "us" the "currency" were books, sometimes a bit of cash
For a longer while, we do meet just for the very sake of it, she would ask for a favor if nessesary, but it do feels like from transactional nature of the relation we have reached the friendship stage(?).
So, what beats me - Can you insist on the asexual nature while actually enjoying the foot worship for up to the 4 hours long which is our actual "best" and coming with the spicy idea on your own?
It feels like a contradicion but in the fun way as she have become kind of eager to see each other for that specific reason.
PS: Yup, I know the asexual people in general are no strangers to experiancing "The sudden spikes in pleasure" but I my guess it they treat "IT" as the last ressort if anything?