u/WysBeyondYears

This is a long one. If that scares you, leave.

I've just recently accepted a certain part of myself... And it's going to make this so much simpler for us both.

You need to be owned. A strong, intelligent man to help you fix the pathetic mess of a life your living. Maybe to help you find yourself in a very successful and draining life instead. To find that spark you lost far too early.

I don't care about what you've been through, or who you are. I care where you're going. The thing that most fulfills me in life, is helping guide others to true happiness. Not the life they've been told to desire, but the life that real desires having been trying to tell the to claim. Guide folks out of the closet, out of unhappy relationships, unhappy homes, unhappy careers. Reasonably...

For most people I do this expecting nothing in return. But not you. You'll give me everything in return. Your entire life, your entire future.

Of course you're free to say no, most reading this will. You're free to leave at any time.

All that said...

What I offer is a life without unnecessary thoughts. I can take on the burden of existing for you, as much as you're willing to let go of it. I will tell you how to deal with work, what to do for work, whether to work at all. I will make sure you eat well. Make sure you drink water. Make sure you exercise. I'll reshape your body, reshape your mind, even your soul. You simply need to choose to let me. Whatever comforts you need to get there, we can work through. But if you understand what I'm offering and truly want this for yourself: Make your first offering in your first message to me. It can be something as simple as choosing what you wear to bed tonight. Or as extreme as choosing if you eat this week. I don't make these decisions lightly. It's not a game. I will ask you questions about these decisions and choose the optimal path. This isn't just a kink, this is the rest of your life. Understand that.

What I want is an obedient pet looking to change her life entirely. This is a TPE dynamic, obviously. I don't do well with small talk, so allow reading this to be you getting to know me. Your first and most important role in this dynamic is to be my pet. I get absolutely feral at times. If and When we make this into something in-person, I will be rough with you. Sometimes at random. Sometimes entirely non-sexually. I will hold you too tight. I will pin you to the ground. I will bite you. I will hurt you. None of that is aggressive with me, simply my primal predatory mind toying with prey. I am not violent out of anger. I am not violent out of hate. That's not some claim of superiority as if those aren't a part of my blood. Those are rules I've made for myself and hold firmly. My violence is playful and obsessive.

UNTIL this becomes in-person, you are my porn. You can have your limits, you have your rules, but you exist to make me cum. If you can't do that, I don't need you.

I will want pictures. I will want videos. I will give you tasks to complete, rituals to perform, sacrifices to offer. I have very many kinks, more kinks than limits. Most are entirely optional. Learn the ones you like and do your job. There are a handful that are absolutely mandatory.

TPE - Obviously.
Petplay - You better be REALLY special if you want to be anything more.
CNC - In-person, you are property. There is no "No" Feel free to fight me though.
SAFE WORD - This is the ONLY way I break scene. Used to discuss concerns in the moment, or negotiate rules and limits. THIS IS MANDATORY.
Pain - I will hurt you.
Cuddling - I will trap you.
Degradation - Very mild. You are my pet, I will treat you like one. That means less than human. That doesn't mean badly. Don't bully your pets you fucking cretins.

OUTSIDE OF KINK: As you can probably tell if you read this far, I'm a bit of an awkward guy. I lack much tact, fuck it. I am emotionally intelligent. I can be gentle, I can be compliant, I can be agreeable. Fuck that. I'm likely on the spectrum, I am an extreme empath, and I have a far too strong sense of justice. I spend too much energy on tact and get too little out of it. I'm not going to be tactful with my prey. My toy. You are no longer a person. If I wanted to drain my own energy on someone who couldn't handle my bluntness, I'd be in a normal relationship.

That said, this relationship will not be exclusively sexual. It will be VERY sexual. I have a very high drive. But it will also be incredibly nerdy. I am a man who believes he can tell you what to do at all times and that your life will be improved as a result. That means I'm a man who thinks. A lot. I like to share those thoughts. Some are incredibly wild and unbelievable, others are dark and scarring. SURPRISE! I have very strong thoughts about politics and economics and religion. You will listen to all of them. If you're capable, you can even engage me in conversation about them! That is not mandatory, I recognize most people don't want to think about those things and if you're looking for what I'm offering... it would make sense that you don't.

Less serious, I'm a huge anime and video game nerd! We will talk about these! You will watch these! If you're a gamer, even better! Beyond those, I love nature and especially rock (Again, likely on the spectrum), and will drag you out looking for these. If I REALLY like you I might even offer you some pretty rocks or a really nice stick. We'll look at birds and trees and all sorts of beautiful sights. We'll float down rivers and chase waterfalls. More serious, we'll play TTRPGs and I will make sexy solo adventures filled with kinks for your to suffer through. I am a DM at heart and take me storytelling very seriously, so it wont be full of kinks like a bad porn, but they will be worked into the combat and resource systems and always present.

TL;DR For my ADHD ^(Girlfailures) skipping ahead -

Kinks:
TPE
Petplay
CNC
Painplay
Cuddling
LIGHT Degradation (I'm too nice to say mean things unless they're needed)

Hobbies:
Anime
Games
TTRPG (D&D types)
Nature
Rocks
You

If you are interested: Offer me control of any 1 thing in the first line of your message. For any duration.