
I (36m) want to tell my (33fm) GF of a year and a half about my love for chastity. Our sex life is great, we both switch often. Never bored, she rocks my world, I like to think I reciprocate. But I do love to be locked up. It’s not an absolute need for me, but it’s a definite want. I abandoned it when we moved in together (3 months ago) just due to circumstances of moving and starting over in a new place. Now we have a good routine and I find myself wanting to lock up again. We’ve talked about a lot of kinks and acted on some (both into voyeurism/exhibitionism, some light bdsm play), but this one feels bigger. Any advice from the community out there? She’s very open minded. I think she’d respond non critically, but how do I approach it? On a scale of lock up and give her the keys to “what would you think about if I was in to this?” All comments welcome.