u/ancrix

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So I've been single and separated & someone in my insta suggested me reddit is a good place. He was even kind enough to give me his reddit id and I started posting hoping for an anonymous hookup.

Call me old fashioned but what's up with young guys nowadays. All the message I get

\* Hey do you wanna see my dick

\* Hey I'll smash you like you won't be able to walk

\* Hey mistress, can I be your slave.. I'll drink your pee

\* Hey & Hey mommy (just hey??)

And these countless random worthless msgs that you don't even feel replying like.

I know and I don't expect a boyfriend treatment when all I want is quick sex but atleast make it like you're talking to a human and not an object.

I mean what happened to whooing your woman. I've been long out from the dating lifestyle but my personal opinion is it has gone inferior. I know I'm also looking for just a hookup and not a long term thing but still.. it just ewws me out.

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1. The asshole: “hey bitch”, “hey slut”, “what’s up whore” guys. They’re typically super pushy and trying to speed run sexting. If you take longer then 45 seconds to respond their blowing your phone up. Their horny af that second and 8/10 times will nut quick and then ghost or delete. If you don’t block them expect on a random cold night 2 months since your last conversation you’ll receive another “what up slut” DM at 3:07am.

2. The shy and harmless. Usually only say “hey” and it’s like pulling teeth to get them to do anything. A LOT of small talk and short messages but very nice and respectful. Usually I’ll just send pics to them mid convo to then get a “WOW 😅😍”. Sometimes they’ll catch on sometimes it’s just you dragging them through sexting. Not the worst but not good either.

3. The questioner: comes into your DM’s with loads of questions of how many times you’ve been fucked, do you dress public, when did you notice you liked this… these guys it never goes anywhere really, the sexting usually sucks, I’ve noticed they are looking for a ts GF typically but will ghost randomly and delete account after (that PNC hit like a truck for them).

4. The window shopper: Asks for 50 pics, your snap, your WhatsApp, your telegram, your twitter. Wants full length vids, however he refuses to send 1 dick pic. Super entitled, insults or ghost if you don’t give them everything they want just overall ANNOYING AF!!!

5. HIM: Comes into your DM’s on some nice respectful shit, then 2-3 messages in starts off being direct and confident giving light compliments, 5-10 messages in has your bussy throbbing for him having you turned on in a slutty submissive mess. Sends pics willingly and doesn’t beg for them back, then after your done you can expect to hear back regularly if y’all had good chemistry and it was fun.

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So it was my ex who started it. He came in my mouth and asked not to swallow and then he kissed me swapping and dripping cum from both of our mouths and my current partner who was earlier not into it has grown so much fond of it. It's first him and then me or vice versa.. this is how we are ending our sex nowadays.