u/asheashes

Hello! I’m a 20 year old transmasculine switch and I am looking for connections in person! I live in Boston but am unable to host. I am primarily seeking kink-based connections with a) trans people (transfemmes to the front), b) dominants or dom-leaning switches, and/or c) unique and interesting individuals. If you check one or all of these boxes, please keep reading!

A bit about me! I'm a busy student who also works full time. My schedule is hectic!! (And I take a couple days to reply sometimes (whoops).) I’m on testosterone, and I identify as gender non conforming. I have a couple of years of experience in kink–both in the bedroom and in the larger community.

I enjoy both silly and deep conversations about academia and media and fandom. The way to my bed is a nice dinner, a good book, and a fun conversation. I enjoy chasing joy and moderate hedonism. I crave the mindset of submission, of the feeling of freedom and trust, of being able to let go because I know someone else will care for my vulnerability. It’s been a long time since I have been able to fully submit to someone else. I love pleasure dom/mes, I like disciplinarians, but I am mainly looking for someone who will see my wants and give me what I truly need. For someone who will calm my mind with their guiding, firm hand. I enjoy worship that goes both ways. I am eager to please and I live to serve. I am seeking to submit–but submission comes in many forms. I enjoy submissive topping and providing for my dom’s needs. I also have a deep bratty streak but I can get put in my place ;).

I am wildly kinky and very down to explore facets of kink I might not know much about. I like a variety of kinks, and I play off the connection I have with another person. I’m very reactive. The kinks I find myself actively seeking out are bondage, impact play, pet play, and bratting.

I adore bondage–I am a self-tier, rigger, and bunny. Impact play remains one of my favourite kinks; I love implements, I love discipline, I love maintenance spankings, I like getting hit. I’m a masochist who loves to take a hit anytime. Let me be your stress relief. I’m still discovering my petplay headspace but I find myself enjoying being pet and cared for. And I also like being someone’s filthy mutt. I am deeply a brat. I like to poke and push and prod and play to get a rise out of you. I want the funishments and discipline that comes from my bratting.

I want to be slammed against the wall or thrown over your knee or fucked relentlessly until I’m crying. I like to be pushed, I like to be fucked, I like to be overwhelmed and mindfucked. I like multiple types of orgasm control: edging, asking for permission, and overstimulation/orgasm overload. I’m also into praise and degradation, especially when the two mix. I crave pain and pleasure and I find both in each other. I also have other kinks and fantasies I want to explore, but I want to get to know someone first.

I said a lot, but TLDR: fuck me up and fuck me into the mattress, but treat me like a person. I don't share nudes, but I would like face pics for verification after chatting. If interested please send a DM! Lazy messages shall be ignored. It might take me some time to reply–I am not constantly on Reddit.