I made a post a couple of weeks ago about finding a phone number on a napkin in my husband's pocket when I was doing laundry and even though I didn't find any evidence of a call or text history on my husband's phone, the number did auto-complete when I tried searching his contacts making me wonder if he had deleted the text thread.
First, I really appreciate everyone who reached out to me after my last post offering advice and… more. Thank you. Your support has been tremendous and I appreciate you.
Second, I’ve gotten several of the same questions, so I'll answer them here for anyone curious:
My husband, Shawn, is late-30s and active. He spends a lot of time at the gym swimming and running. He insists that he's too old to be called a twink, but I can't think of a better descriptor. I am late-40s and don't get to the gym as often as I used to, but when I go I focus on weight lifting and lean more toward a bear build.
Shawn and I have been married for almost ten years. We have had a few threesomes in the past and years ago messed around with some other guys, but we are not in an open marriage, at least not that I know of.
There have been other questions asked of a more personal nature, but I don't feel comfortable sharing them here. If you'd like to know more, just message me.
Third, the update…
Someone who messaged me suggested that I check my husband's phone for pictures. Well, I did, and I'm not sure what to make of what I found. Maybe you guys can give me your opinions.
My husband is attractive and is proud of how he looks and has always taken lots of pictures of himself. There are hundreds of selfies in his phone and he's never been shy about showing off his body while he's in a swimsuit at the pool or even with a towel around his waist after a shower. But the composition of pictures on his phone from the last couple of weeks feels a lot different from his older pics. They are a lot more risque, if that's an appropriate word to use. For instance, he has a picture taken a few days ago that is an after-shower mirror selfie, but instead of the towel being wrapped around his waist like in older pictures, Shawn is holding it in front of his crotch (barely) and his hips are turned enough that you can see the curve of his bare ass. He also has several shirtless pics in places I don't recognize. One of them almost looks like it was taken in a hotel room.
I haven't found evidence that he has sent these pictures to anyone and I haven't found pictures of anyone else on his phone, but if he's deleting text threads, then I'm not sure I would find anything anyway. Are pictures received via text saved in any sort of cache?
The other thing that seems suspicious is Shawn has started working out in the evenings. In the past he has said that he likes working out during the day so we could spend our evenings together. He even got a membership to a gym near his work so he could workout either before or after work, but a couple of weeks ago he told me that one of the trainers he likes started teaching a spin class at 6 PM so he's been going to that class on Tuesdays and Thursdays. I checked the gym’s class schedule posted on their website and they don't list a spin class at that time, but if it’s a new class then maybe the gym hasn’t updated its on-line schedule yet.
If anything else develops, I'll let you guys know.
***Author’s Note: This story is completely fictional about characters who are all over the age of 21.