cowgirl causes me quite bad joint pain, and i also get very little sexual pleasure from it. i've heard the joint pain is quite common. i've also heard that a lot of people feel bad about their bodies from riding/being on top.
it took me 10 years of being sexually active to stop doing it just because someone asked me to.
anyone here relate?
maybe something you think should be obvious, but no one ever talks about. maybe something incredibly niche that's only ever worked with one person. maybe it's a technique for pissing on someone while hard. i don't care, be as weird or kinky as you want.
just make sure it's nothing unconsensual, or related to manipulating or tricking someone into doing something they don't want to do.
my contribution:
i squeeze my pelvic floor muscles over my partner's cock, as though i were doing kegels, but during sex. i often do this when they're trying to tease/frustrate me by not moving while fucking me, as a way to tease back, or increase the sensation/tightness.
men can do something similar (yes, men can and should do kegels as well), clenching the pelvic floor muscles in order to hold back ejaculation and last longer without having to break the rhythm