What's with the huge obsession about heterosexuality/"straight"/"str8" guys on here?
Seriously, I don't get it. If one is a man sexually intersted in / turned on by body parts (such as feet) of another man (or like to have their own worshipped by another man), why would one make such a big deal of pointing out straightness in that very scenario?
To me, it messages "I hereby let you know that I very much enjoy putting my D into a V and also like squishy, wobbly tits!" - this to me is a massive turn-off, as it signals that their M/M foot fetish is a shameful, subordinate "niche thing" in their sexual portfolio some otherwise self-acclaimed "very straight" (tm) guys barely tolerate about themselves. When I want to worship/celebrate another man's feet or vice versa, the very last thing I want to think about/be reminded of is how much they would rather like pounding pussy in that moment instead, but they currently "put up" with "Plan C". Makes you feel like you're third choice / scraps. Instead I want to feel and enjoy that intense mutual M/M physical and spiritual connection/attraction in this moment
What makes those guys shun the "gay"/"bi" label so much? It reads to me as "I'm totally 100% not even a little bit gay/bi, but... [continues to list very gay foot fetish fantasy scenarios]" i.e. internalised homo-/biphobia
Is it that you don't want things to "escalate" to anal sex? That's fine, you can still be officially gay/bi, many of us are Sides (including my 100% gay self) who don't want to go there either! Being gay/bi does not mean you have to like anal or even oral sex, there's thousands of other ways two men can have highly intense gay fun with each other (such as foot play, massaging, FJs, trampling, frot, mutual JO, etc etc - you decide what you're down to!)
Is it that you're not into stereotypically flamboyant/fem guys and therefore feel compelled to use the "str8" label in order to oppose that? Fine too, just say that you're into physically "masc" guys / bears / twunks / whatever (again I have the same attraction set here) instead of insisting how much you are into women, or "str8" (i.e. non-fem?) guys
Don't want to be labelled gay/bi for whatever different reason? Even that is fine - but maybe just consider not mentioning your (IMO wrongfully, as you do sexually like something about men which 100 % fully straight men simply DO NOT, PERIOD) self-assigned "straight" sexuality at all
I'm all for including straight-leaning / Kinsey 1-2 / questioning bi guys in our fetish community, but please consider turning it down a little on pondering about how you love pussy soooo much, as it invaldiates/degrades our preferences to second/third rate
/rant