36 [M4F] #MD, WV, NOVA Starving for Intimacy, I Need that Spark
I've been with my wife since high school and I truly love her. She is my best friend and I'm not looking to change my home situation. I have always been the one in our relationship that has the higher sex drive and over the years hers has dwindled away to nearly nonexistent. We have had many discussions about our needs/wants in the bedroom, but nothing ever changes. In fact, it has only slowly worsened. We have seen councilors and doctors but nothing works. She just has no desire for sex with anyone. I promise, its not just me. Im a great husband, attentive, not ugly and very eager to please in the bedroom. At this point in life I don't care to change her or make her do anything she doesn't want to do. There is nothing worse than someone faking interest just to appease you just for the sake of the marriage.
I am 36, white, 6'6, 215lbs, buzz cut with a short beard, clean/DDF (except 420). I enjoy video games, TV/movies, puzzles, plants/gardening and working with my hands (DIY household/mechanical). I am an introvert and can be a bit shy at first, but can open up quickly for the right person. I am an independent contractor so I have some flexibility with my schedule during the week. I can NOT host for obvious reason and also have nosy neighbors. It would be great if you could host, but im open to carplay or a hotel room.
Im looking for a somewhat local woman that is in a similar relationship situation or doesn't care that im married. Someone who has daytime availability during the week. I am with the wife at night and on weekends, so those times are a no-go for me. Im very open minded when it comes to looks and personality. As long as our sexual interests/energy matches and there is a mutual physical attraction then im down to clown. Also, must be clean and STI free. Last thing I want is to bring something home to my wife. So if you feel like we could be a match, please feel free to reach out and we can chat.
To anyone who feels the need to tell me what im doing is wrong or try and give me marital advise... no thank you.