u/boringcampsite

Oakland guy here looking for an ongoing arrangement with another man or a couple. I'm into being submissive, taking direction, being put to work, the dynamic of pleasing someone else. Open to escalating to more over time, but happy to start with less. Not looking to receive, and not really into making out, it's the headspace I'm after, not a romantic thing. I've done this once before and it was a lot of fun.

What sounds ideal is something recurring. You've had a long day, you come by my place on your way home or tell me to be ready, we have our time, you head out. Something appealing about being someone's regular outlet.

Because I'd like this to be ongoing and trust matters for what I'm into, I want to chat first. If your opener is two words and an unsolicited pic, we're probably not a fit.

About me: 5'8", in shape / average build, gym a few times a week, take care of myself. Hiking, backpacking, climbing, biking. Based in Oakland with a car, would prefer to host. Tested and clean, you be too.

Looking for: someone who takes care of themselves, no drugs, clean and recently tested, nice cock. Couples welcome.

I have a lot of fantasies around being submissive, a lot of them revolve around sucking a nice cock. I would love to be used for someone else's pleasure, couples would be fun but single males are also super welcome. I would love to be told what to do and how to please someone, call me names, etc. Ideally I would love to bottom or get pegged but that might not be right off the bat. I don't want to receive oral myself, not into it.

I'd love a regular thing eventually, tell me to show up or swing by my apartment on a stressful day on your way home, get taken care of, and go on your way. In my head it sounds hot that you think of me needing it, that you know that it helps me relax a bit to have you cum. I wouldn't actually say I'm bi, not interesting in making out really, it's more the sub aspect I'm interested in.

Since I'd like this to be regular and some of the scenarios can be a little intense and require some trust I'd definitely like to chat for a bit before meeting up, so if you're gonna message with "yo when you free" and a dick pick, it's _probably_ not gonna work out.

I'm 5'8", 165lbs, about 7in, cut cock (shouldn't matter to you, unless your a couple ;)) work out a few times a week, clean, tested, can get tested again if we hit things off. I love hiking and backpacking, climbing, ride my bike sometimes. In Oakland but and have a car, can host or travel if it's not too far.

You: Average to fit build, at least take care of yourself a bit, no drugs, clean, and tested. Open to couples of all shapes and sizes.

I have a lot of fantasies around being submissive, a lot of them revolve around sucking a nice cock. I would love to be used for someone else's pleasure, couples would be fun but single males are also super welcome. I would love to be told what to do and how to please someone, call me names, etc. Ideally I would love to bottom or get pegged but that might not be right off the bat. I don't want to receive oral myself, not into it.

I'd love a regular thing eventually, tell me to show up or swing by my apartment on a stressful day on your way home, get taken care of, and go on your way. In my head it sounds hot that you think of me needing it, that you know that it helps me relax a bit to have you cum. I wouldn't actually say I'm bi, not interesting in making out really, it's more the sub aspect I'm interested in.

Since I'd like this to be regular and some of the scenarios can be a little intense and require some trust I'd definitely like to chat for a bit before meeting up, so if you're gonna message with "yo when you free" and a dick pick, it's _probably_ not gonna work out.

I'm 5'8", 165lbs, about 7in, cut cock (shouldn't matter to you, unless your a couple ;)) work out a few times a week, clean, tested, can get tested again if we hit things off. I love hiking and backpacking, climbing, ride my bike sometimes. In Oakland but and have a car, can host or travel if it's not too far.

You: Average to fit build, at least take care of yourself a bit, no drugs, clean, and tested. Open to couples of all shapes and sizes.