u/brown_goddesss

As I mentioned ill be conducting an education kink class, which is today at 5 pm.

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I'll be taking questions, explaining my femdom journey, explaining kinks and demonstrating a kink with my sub. No this isnt a class where I'll be domming you, just for educational purpose

To participate in this activity comment-

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1.your ASL

2. Explaining either SSC/RACK/PRICK (atleast 150 words)

3. A kink you would like me to cover in the class.

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Been a lil while since I was active, didn't have much social battery. But I'll be conducting a kink class on Sunday 21st June, 5:00 PM IST (time is tentative for now)

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So its been on my mind a while but couldnt do cause i wasnt home alone. Finally got the opportunity. I mostly engage in informative and educational posts too and wanted to do a virtual education class over discord. It will have limited participation (20 people at max). The kink class itself is free given you get selected for the class.

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If you think it's gonna be a class where I'll dom you then dont bother joining , this is purely for educational purpose. That's a given it's not gonna be a professional advice, I'll just be sharing my experience along with telling how the kinks can be practiced from what I've learned and observed.

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Me and my sub will engage in the play to demonstrate how its done and it's only for educational purpose.

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1. You need to be an active member in the community

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2. I should be able to see your profile and comment history as I'll be filtering out/vetting who can join if i haven't seen you in the community

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3. Do not Message me, only interact in comments for the same.

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4. Do not record the call or take pictures, it will lead to a ban from community

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5. Dommes are more than welcome to join.

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6. I'll also be doing an AMA so bring your questions/have them ready

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To participate-

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Comment your ASL, explain one term either from SSC/RACK/PRICK in the same comment apart from just giving its full form. You may also mention a kink you would love to have covered in the class.

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Been a lil while since I was active, didn't have much social battery. But I'll be conducting a kink class on Sunday 21st June, 5:00 PM IST (time is tentative for now)

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So its been on my mind a while but couldnt do cause i wasnt home alone. Finally got the opportunity. I mostly engage in informative and educational posts too and wanted to do a virtual education class over discord. It will have limited participation (20 people at max). The kink class itself is free given you get selected for the class.

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If you think it's gonna be a class where I'll dom you then dont bother joining , this is purely for educational purpose. That's a given it's not gonna be a professional advice, I'll just be sharing my experience along with telling how the kinks can be practiced from what I've learned and observed.

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Me and my sub will engage in the play to demonstrate how its done and it's only for educational purpose.

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1. You need to be an active member in the community

2. I should be able to see your profile and comment history as I'll be filtering out/vetting who can join if i haven't seen you in the community

3. Do not Message me, only interact in comments for the same.

4. Do not record the call or take pictures, it will lead to a ban from community

5. Dommes are more than welcome to join.

6. I'll also be doing an AMA so bring your questions/have them ready

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To participate-

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Comment your ASL, explain one term either from SSC/RACK/PRICK in the same comment apart from just giving its full form. You may also mention a kink you would love to have covered in the class.

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I hope everyone's doing alright~ Any special weekend plans? Anything new you recently tried or something new you discovered and want to try ?

People who had IRL sessions , how was it the first time you experienced it? What did you guys do? How different was it from your expectations.

People complain about being scammed but won't even check the persons profile or activities/posts and comments. What you expecting from a few days account or ones that just have few images with nothing written about.

Subs dont bother to check if the person they are DM-ing is a male or female. Just horny bastards looking for anyone to satisfy their lust. Some sissy or femboys also be acting like doms in this group.

And the never ending low quality posts without barely 3 lines. This seems more like a sissy subreddit ATP.

Also dont complain about being scammed if you can't even have proper discussions, have them verify or even make sure they are genuine. Its not our fault you are being dumb.

Edit- typos

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Soooo\~ i got this random idea and im excited to try it. Those who want to participate can join the discord server i have to take part in this task/event (requires picture proofs). The next step will be pinned in #announcements in the discord server after 45 mins from this post

Things you should have ready-

1. Marker

2. Determination and will to last without orgasming

3. As a measure to vet people, reply with - how you got into femdom and why do you want to participate in this event/kink

Additional info-

1. I'll tell when/what time you can edge.

2. This task is open only till tonight. The participation closes after midnight.

3. The one who lasts the longest may get a reward

4. No dick pics to be shared (blur/censor it when sending images)

5. Bonus points if you have a cage

6. T&C- If you fail to complete the task/duration/end up orgasming accidently or want to cum early, i might impose a small penalty (punishment plus Rs.500 penalty). About wanting to cum early depends on my decision and how good you beg. So I hope yall

Link- https://discord.gg/2SNWJBBdd

Soooo~ i got this random idea and im excited to try it. Those who want to participate can join the discord server i have to take part in this task/event (requires picture proofs). The next step will be pinned in #announcements in the discord server after 45 mins from this post

Things you should have ready-

1. Marker

2. Determination and will to last without orgasming

3. As a measure to vet people, reply with - how you got into femdom and why do you want to participate in this event/kink

Additional info-

1. I'll tell when/what time you can edge.

2. This task is open only till tonight. The participation closes after midnight.

3. The one who lasts the longest may get a reward

4. No dick pics to be shared (blur/censor it when sending images)

5. Bonus points if you have a cage

6. T&C- If you fail to complete the task/duration/end up orgasming accidently or want to cum early, i might impose a small penalty (punishment plus Rs.500 penalty). About wanting to cum early depends on my decision and how good you beg. So I hope yall

Link- https://discord.gg/2SNWJBBdd

Generally the subreddit isnt this quiet, especially on weekend. Too few posts or chaos honestly. I hope everyone is well and had fun this weekend ?

How did yall surprise your mom/planned the day for them?

Nothing major at my home. I'll be with my fam (mom and nani), we will order food in, have a small cake and just spend time together.

Apart from that anything fun that happened this week? Im also open to answer any questions regarding kink/bdsm/femdom/findom.

Well mother's day is just around the corner , i hope yall are helping and making your mom's feel special apart from just a single day. But also any special plans ?

What about your Mommy dommes mhm~ ? Did ya plan anything for them 🤭

Some things you can do for your dommes for free-

1. A handwritten appreciation letter- even if you guys are doing it virtually, things are more whimsical and lovely if its handwritten rather than typed on computer/phone. Dont forget to appreciate and shower them with love.

2. Dedicated a song or a poem. Better if its self written or you actually sing/record it for them

3. Create a cute card, just like you would for mother's day as a kid. Make it cute, color it, be creative~

Things you can do for your Mommy domme by using some money-

1. Get them a spa or a massage session, or pay for that. Nothing like a good relaxing body massage

2. Basics- chocolates and flowers

3. Pamper them- buy them stuff they have been eyeing or collective small stuff that reminds you of them. Example- a color that represents them , skincare like face sheets, scented candles , chocolates , fragrance body wash.

4. Play for their dinner/lunch. You can also be on call while having meal together. Or send them their favourite dessert.

5. A perfume that reminds you of them or think suits them the best.

6. Pay for their nails/mani/pedi

Or send them an amount/giftcard as you wish.

Again this comes from my personal opinion and isnt a set answer. But take it as a dommes perspective and im sure many might relate.

• What I think is a quality post ?

# For me it has to be something meaningful , well written with intent , engaging or participating in a discussion or sharing your discussion or thoughts. I should be able to see some efforts and it shouldn't be like every third post on my feed i would say.

• Types of post-

A. Looking for domme:

Now if you are seeking any kind of domme, what I've noticed is your profiles are blank. Hardly anything that would make me think that we have common interest, your links around kink or just you take and perspective on things as i think it helps me understand you as a sub and see if things would be compatible.

How to improve ?

1. Dont start by a random ah pic of your dick/balls/asshole. Especially if you aren't keeping the area well groomed.

2. Your introduction should have the following- age, location, sfw interest/about yourself , kinks , limits and experience. Also what you are looking for so people arent wasting time in DMs if yall already know something isnt compatible. Your personal should have 3-4 para or minimum 300 words, no gibberish.

3. Add humor/be witty. While i like submissive people i also like those who have a good sense of humor and are playful with words. This is my preference, differs from domme to domme

4. Try to make title catchy if you can. That's literally the first thing we see and decide if we wanna open the post or not.

5. Stop saying- 27M looking for a female domme in kochi/Allahabad who can peg me or turn me into a sissy. Be better, refer to the second point as i mentioned

6. Make it sound about our pleasure instead of it sounding like you are using us for your sexual gratification. The tone, the expression.

B. Pictures:

We also see many dick picks , ass and sissy or cross dresser pics. Now most of them don't serve anything femdom related. Its more about it being your fetish. You have plenty sissy and exhibitionist subreddits for that. Most of the sissy or crossdressing pictures look repetitive and don't appeal to the femdom aspect.

How to improve ?

1. Be it any kind of picture, look up on youtube for how to use lighting, angles and shadows to your advantage in picture. Try taking aesthetic pictures that's for femgaze/pleasing to our eyes.

2. Try to avoid posting generic pictures which has better suited subreddits. Even if you do add a femdom component in it, try to add description to your pictures.

3. Make sure your pubes are shaved, keeping the background clean, its always better to take pictures from a lil away do maybe keep ypur phone against a desk and click pictures.

*As I said that the pictures posted aren't generally aligned with the community's interest , i also believe that you should be able to express yourself. Which is why I think having a day dedicated to sissy/femboy/cross dressers post. We won't tolerate dick pics ofcourse. This is still in discussion*

C. Kink dispensing/Looking to have kinks fulfilled:

I mean I get it you have a ballbusting kink or sph, and i like those kinks too, but maybe i would like it to be well articulated rather than just demanding it or making a two liner post.

You can try improving my either writing a fantasy around it, and experience you had which makes you wanna seek out again or something.

D. Questions/Discussion:

I hardly feel like there's any matter or context. Like if you are having a discussion or asking opinion you should first be keeping your take and opinion on that matter. That's what makes it a discussion, show efforts, its sexy.

How to improve-

1. If asking a question, what was the thought process behind it. What made you think about it or ask the question.

2. If you are taking advice give some context as to what happened, answers are highly variable depending upon what transpired previously.

3. If you are sharing an opinion or participating in discussions then your opinion regarding whatever you asked should be in the body. As I said intent matters.

4. Replay back and discuss on the opinion or take someone else has presented while being respectful. Just because you don't agree to their opinion doesn't mean you tear them down.

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Now every post doesn't have to be long or lengthy, as long as it's a useful/quality post. To the point but meaningful works.

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REGARDING THE DOMMES-

I've noticed that we also post low quality posts without substance.

Like when looking for subs/finsubs, atleast tell something about yourself in your post. Similar to how subs should make a post, Just because you are a domme doesn't give you the right to bypass it.

Tell what you are seeking, expectations , something about yourself. Dont make a two liner post saying- "Worship my feet by being a good footslut. DM if you wamma experience it. Only looking for finsubs".

PICTURES-

This is a grey area. I've seen people post pics either barely a title and no context. These come under low effort posts too. But subs enjoy seeing a dommes feet/armpit/cleavage. I feel like half of the traction comes because of them. So can we really ban them?

Just like we want it to be a platform for sissies for express themselves even tho there are too many posts, i dont want that a domme needs to make a grand post just to have casual worship in her comment or as a confidence booster. Sometimes we just want to flaunt. The thing is people like seeing dommes pic (i know we have specific subreddit for that too, but our intention is for subs to worship our feet rather than just horny people coming in our inbox because of their feet fetish).

Pictures just showing ass/feet or tits with no femdom context should be removed but I'm ngl even i like looking at the gorgeous ladies here.

But that doesn't mean all your posts can be low efforts, Just like sub either write down a thought in description with body or something similar as discussed above.

There obviously is a bias and power imbalance, fur to the nature of the dynamic either. But I'm open to your views on what I've mentioned so far and if dommes should get the pass to post random thoughts or pics.

Edit- gonna be adding examples of post

Example of low effort posts imo-

https://www.reddit.com/r/desiFemdomComm/s/n0h1y6AnyS . Its not related to femdom in anyways, neither the caption/title nor the pic

https://www.reddit.com/r/desiFemdomComm/s/Uy7PylZx28 https://www.reddit.com/r/desiFemdomComm/s/bwF6xvwYk0 these are low effort posts

https://www.reddit.com/r/desiFemdomComm/s/Kp5neNATP3 https://www.reddit.com/r/desiFemdomComm/s/ylVl96GrPY nothing femdom related per say, Just pist saying looking for finsubs.

(I dont have any grudges or anything against anyone, just the state of subreddit and issues im trying to make people aware of)

https://www.reddit.com/r/desiFemdomComm/s/xcwOUgoyO4 https://www.reddit.com/r/desiFemdomComm/s/9MFAaQQvBQ doesn't add much to group, very generic

I think these posts are good-

https://www.reddit.com/r/desiFemdomComm/s/Lc533fN30B (i would day its well written with their thoughts penned down) https://www.reddit.com/r/desiFemdomComm/s/5UuznOoCfh now this isnt a very common post and i will consider it a good posts even tho according to what I mentioned above it doesn't have femdom title or body.

https://www.reddit.com/r/desiFemdomComm/s/bhAjQ8ncI2 a rather well written post

Was just imagining making people buy my used shoes/footwear and then giving them instructions regarding it. Like it has many possibilities I would say-

1. CBT- making them hurt their balls with my own shoes~, having them crush their dick with it

2. Worship- making them kiss and adore the divine shoes that i wore~

3. Humiliation- making them lick my shoes clean or have them sniffing into the soles.

4. Joi- having them hump my shoes like a filthy lil mutt 🤭

What do you think about it? Does that excited you, to sniff someone's used shoes, especially gym shoes if you have a thing for feet and swea//aroma.

Have you ever done anything similar ?