u/choosingmyself2020

let's talk and see where it goes! though disclaimer: i think the most i'd do is chat and maybe a voice call, unless the connection is really strong (i doubt it lol)

me: 28, f, big 3 grad, quite tall and skinny for a girl, morena, pretty, lots of creative hobbies

you: would be cool if ur from a big 3 school too but absolutely no pressure, though i prefer english only! no jejes pls 😅 tbh u don't have to be chinito either HAHA as long as u can rizz me up. 25-30 is an ok age range for me!

i don't reply unless you can introduce yourself well! see you in my dms

let's talk and see where it goes! though disclaimer: i think the most i'd do is chat and maybe a voice call, unless the connection is really strong (i doubt it lol)

me: 28, f, big 3 grad, quite tall and skinny for a girl, morena, pretty, lots of creative hobbies

you: would be cool if ur from a big 3 school too but absolutely no pressure, though i prefer english only! no jejes pls 😅 tbh u don't have to be chinito either HAHA as long as u can rizz me up. 25-30 is an ok age range for me! locals only, not open to non-filipinos (mainly for humor purposes)

i don't reply unless you can introduce yourself well! see you in my dms

title says it all

i typically make this part detailed but i'm a bit too sad for that right now.

some basic info about me: 29, F, broke from unemployment, from alabang

you: honestly open to anyone hearing me vent. please know that i'm not asking for advice. it would also help if we're the same wavelength or have a similar upbringing (either you grew up in alabang or somewhere in the south or went to similar schools growing up)

STRICTLY ONLY SFW! i am sad!

hi! i really just want to vent :( i feel so stupid too since i'm a PWD with a psychosocial disorder which is why losing my belongings is a sensitive topic, but i'm so certain i checked my wallet three times last night and three times this morning. i know i'm not dumb but this just makes me trust myself less. i cried while cleaning my room and the entire house and i'm so tired.

i also got really bad customer service recently and i just wanna cry myself to sleep :(

looking for: someone to hear me vent. listening ear only, please do not give me advice.

me: 29, F, from the south, english speaking, went to a big 3 school and an all-girls high school, likes cats and window shopping (also broke from unemployment which is why the money loss is hitting me harder too)

you: tbh i'm open to talking to anyone who is willing to listen and hear me vent without giving advice

please introduce yourself thoroughly in my dms! i don't reply unless i have a decent grasp of who you are.

WHOLESOME ONLY! STRICTLY SFW

hi reddit

i feel pathetic for posting this, but hey, this is better than doing something destructive

i work in the creative/fashion industry and i had a really bad day today related to work, on top of missing someone who passed away.

looking for someone to call on telegram (obviously this is strictly sfw!) just to vent.

me: 28, f, tall and thin, from a big 3 college, working in creatives/fashion

you:

• please be at least a college grad who is working na so we can relate on the struggles of work!
• preferably from a big 3 college too (ok if not)
• non-negotiable: english speaking (unforced, natural, grew up speaking it). this is because i vent and talk about my emotions in english, and i would like to focus on having an outlet for my feelings rather than translating what i feel.

please introduce yourself in my reddit dms! i'd like to get a sense of who you are, so include any helpful info. do you have pets? any hobbies? how old and what school are you from? (just some examples for your intro; feel free to include anything sfw!)

hey! just looking for good chemistry in my reddit dms. let's see where it goes!

describing myself below! please dm if you think you're an excellent fit 💗

• 28
• tall and thin (sadly taller than some men on reddit)
• pretty (i model sometimes)
• smart and educated; graduated from a big 3 school
• lover girl and a romantic at heart
• strong personality but wants to be soft
• used to be athletic but the weather has slowed down my workouts :(
• current fixations: off campus (i love dean and allie hehe), making breakfast sandwiches, watching chill kiddie shows like bluey and snoopy for when i wanna relax

my non-negos:

• 28-32 y/o
• taller than me
• not skinny
• big 3 school as well! i think this is fair; my standards for men are just me describing a male counterpart of myself 🤷‍♀️
• makes their own money

would love if you can introduce yourself nicely in my dms! tell me about yourself

the people who can best answer this question are likely not on this sub, so this question might be flawed. but i really wanna quit looking for strangers to talk to on this sub (and other r4r subs)

i do have communities i'm a part of, i do hope to meet people irl, but sometimes it's just hard to find a catch. i also end up on r4r subreddits when i feel lonely. i wish i had better tools to sit with the discomfort first.

i know there's nothing wrong about finding company online, but i think it's holding me back from seeking real connections in the real world.

me: 28, f, tall and thin, big 3 grad, working in the creative industry

you: not picky, just give advice :(

title says it all

voice call only on tg but we can def swap photos to set the mood

i like doing this in english, so hopefully you’re english/taglish speaking too or went to one of the ‘cony’ schools

just need to destress since i'm so tense

you: english speaking, 21-30 i don't mind younger as long as you know what you’re doing

title says it all

voice call only on tg but we can def swap photos to set the mood

i like doing this in english, so hopefully you’re english/taglish speaking too or went to one of the ‘cony’ schools

just need to destress since i'm so tense

you: english speaking, 21-30 i don't mind younger as long as you know what you’re doing

hi!

i might be getting ahead of myself, but i'm going to spend my entire day tomorrow running errands and commuting all over metro manila, and i want to unwind by calling someone after dinner.

me:

28, tall and thin, talkative, likes to pet stray cats and go thrift shopping

you:

preferably 25-30 y/o, someone who speaks english naturally and conversationally, and can keep a convo going! if you went to a big 3 school or to an all-boys/all-girls private high school, we're probably on the same wavelength, but no pressure if not.

please introduce yourself in my reddit dms and include your telegram username. i have to get a good idea of who you are and i don't reply to just 'hi' or non-value-adding dms.

bonus question to answer after introducing yourself: what are your recent google searches? or what have you been curious about lately? (here's mine: is the kobo libra color 2 worth it?, how to start a business in metro manila, do i really need a dumbphone?)

see you in my dms!