u/countrypine

I'm a woman that's pretty into women but do swing both ways. My question is, there's so many men here that are into women, but when I'm out in the world it feels like if I hit on anyone they're likely to think it's weird more than respond. I thought it might be because I'm plus size (size 16 so not huge) or because I'm in my 30s, but are men out there actually down for random hook ups or fun? If I did flirt with men I encounter in my life, would they be into it? Just hate rejection. Idk, tell me your thoughts. Sometimes I want to have an affair but don't know if I could make it happen.

I'm a 30s normal job, normal life woman in Kapiti but head to wellington for work often. Educated, office type job.

I'm married in a straight relationship but I'm very queer.

Can't figure out how to meet other ladies for a FWB or casual. Every woman is a bot or actually a man.

I have to keep it subtle because of my job and marriage, so want someone normal who won't fatal attraction me.

Dm me if it sounds like you. Maybe proof of boring public sector job required 😜