u/cunningtree

I've got this coworker that drives me absolutely insane and I don't even fully understand why.
She's mid-30s, married, super soft-spoken and genuinely kind. Not flashy at all. But something about her completely wrecks my brain every time she walks by or we are together.

She's thick in the best way possible.. curvy hips, thick thighs, always wearing these tight black pants that hug everything perfectly and loosen at the bottom. She has a cute pretty face, natural dusky complexion. Nothing revealing, but somehow that makes it worse.

She carries herself so naturally and confidently without even trying.
And honestly.. I think it's the little things that get me most. Her natural smell after a long shift, slightly sweaty but warm and feminine. The way she leans in when we talk. Her voice. Her energy. She has absolutely no idea how badly she affects me.

One thing that I absolutely love is when she kicks off her flats under her desk or in the break room after a long day. She'll flex her tired feet a little and I swear my brain short-circuits every single time. Pretty soft pink feet, slightly damp from being in shoes all day... it's such a random detail to be obsessed with, but it drives me crazy for some reason. It feels weirdly intimate even though it's completely innocent to her.
What makes this harder is that we're actually close.

We joke around, talk a lot at work, and she trusts me. Meanwhile I'm over here trying to act normal while my brain is melting every day.
I know it's just attraction and l'd never disrespect her marriage or make things weird. But damn... I can't be the only person who's been obsessed with someone at work for reasons they can't even explain.
Anyone else ever have a coworker like this? Dm for discussion

Anyone wanna discuss our fetish, the kind of person who notices every little thing: slipped-off flats under the table, dangling heels, tired soles after a long day, that naturally sweaty, feminine vibe that drives you crazy.
I’ve had this obsession for years, especially with a close friend who has absolutely no idea. She’s always casually kicking off her flats or heels whenever we hang out, completely unaware of how insanely attractive it is to me. Those little moments stay stuck in my head way longer than they probably should.

Would love to connect with people who understand that kind of obsession — and especially if you know someone IRL who unknowingly fuels your fetish the same way.