My twenties were all about the slut phase -- one night stands galore. I've tried to come back to that again and again and recapture that energy, but it's been feeling really forced and I'm ashamed to say I've been pretty flaky.
I want to try putting out feelers for a potentially slower dynamic -- no sex the first meeting, and then develop from there. I'm not looking for romance, or a deep connection, or even spending much time together outside the bedroom - just connecting as people, in person, before connecting our genitalia haha. I'm attracted to vibes more than any particular body type or demographic (as long as you're an actual adult, of course).
That said - don't be afraid to be explicit over text! I love reading the kind of first messages that reddit flags as inappropriate. Just, let's try to meet for coffee or at a park or a bar once before slamming into my cunt, you know?