Hi guys, i need some help. Recently i had given into my sissy urges and purchased my very first chastity cage and a dildo to start masturbation the right way. The issue is i do hit some good spots but just after the third use, i feel like the dildo is sliding so easy up and down my ass i can ride it reverse cowgirl pretty easy. The first dildo i bought was a regular 18 cm(6.5in shaft) and , 3.2 cm wide only and the Cage was XS cobra with 55-34MM, The Cage I'm not sure i can judge if its too loose, I mean I'm not filling the cage I'm pretty slim cock but i do have to like squeeze the length a bit to fit.
Should I already upgrade both ? it's just my third use.