I was only here a while ago posting about fet life and getting back into the 'scene' side of things. I've had long time play/partners and arrangements that suited all, so I never really kept a proper eye on things.
I've come back recently looking to see whats new and I've always had a kink of finDomme. An actual kink, not just pay me and then go silent. The power play, commitment and that gorgeous trust just ticks the boxes for me, along with general Domme fun.
I've seen lots of chat here with people (subs? I'm not sure what to call them) looking for someone to play/pay to. Cool, whatever your into.
My question is, what is it that gets pigs super into the whole drain me becuase I've asked and then leave, rather then actual Dom/me people taking control etc? Like if your one kink is draining, I get the thought of young attractive bratty girls claiming they will do just that, will get you off. (Before anyone comes for me, its just what I've seen, along with the OF link. Absolutely nothing wrong with it, make your money however you like, more power to you!) But its the other side that I'm pondering over, the ... deeper? Kink that I'm not sure about.
Perhaps I'm over thinking it all here and there are plenty who mix the two, but I've not seen the latter.
TLDR: Basically paypigs I want to pick those brains. Why pay randomly over having a Dom/me/kink/scene... I don't even know how to phrase it