u/descoxic

EDEMA - ive been avoiding it using a silicon sleeve and these lower intervals. Is edema best avoided ?

Ive been getting it a bit more often lately and I think that around 20 - 25 minutes split into 3 - 5min intervals has been working better for me than 8 min session * 3

I can't say for sure because a few factors changed like supplementation and adding a soft ring and sleeve 24/7 to keep from turtling.

100% the biggest win is having a passive ADS (all day stretch). If id done this when I first attempted PE ages ago, id definitely have kept gains and length.

Anyway here to say it works, but you got to find what works for you. Ive started gaining about 0.5" in length while pumped on a good day. Hope to hit 8" in a couple of years. Prefer the low and slow approach.

Im devastated... even though im double her age and to be the one thats dangerous (or sick in the head for being with a 22y/o)

Ive written pages of emotional stuff thats relevant to why this went south but didnt get the chance to share it. I went to joint therapy with her, made the effort to show up emotionally but just hit a wall. She continoually wanted to escalate the definition and meaning of this relationship till the point there was no capacity to show up in that way for either of us in this moment.

Im just really sad and broken to have to give up something like this that took so much time to build.

Not new to this.

Im relaxed and easy going. Empathetic. However I am also a dom, so I know hoe be strict when I need to be.

43, tanned and slim/athletic. Ive got curly black hair, brown eyes and a groomed beard. I like taking csre of myself and appear much younger to most people.

What im looking for ? A little/sub that is clear on their needs and communicates them. Soft and hard boundaries. Kink wise we can discuss things once the chemistry builds, but I do enjoy the forbidden/DDLG aspect of things as well as healthy BDSM and obedience training.

Dm me and say hi! Age/race/body type no bar!