Serious Need Sob Story 40m looking for F
I can't believe I am writing this. But I am desperate. And it's complicated.
I travel a lot and I often end up in Arizona, both phoenix and tucson. I am an introvert and I don't meet a lot of people outside of work. I don't want to hook up with people I work with because the work that I do is sensitive.
I am married, but my wife has been sick for the last few years and I have been taking care of her. As a result of her sickness, she cannot have sex anymore. I am 40 years old and still have a lot of sexual desire. I know I sound like an a**hole but I do need sex. I don't want to leave her and I love her and our life.
But it's been so long since I have felt the touch of a woman and to be physically desired by a woman. I am by no means ugly but also not attractive. I am physically fit and in great shape, not exaggerating. I am asian, and I am 5'6.
So I am looking for a regular friend with benefits. Just one. Yes, the friend is important but I need someone mature enough to know that this all sexual relationship and not a romantic one nor will it ever turn into that. It's just fun and for me satisfying a selfish need that I have.
I am also not looking for young women as most creeps would, no one under 25. And I don't really care if you're 60 as long as you are equally sexual and I find you attractive, I find older women equally attractive.
So there is my sob story.