u/discretemoneymaker29

Why do men cheat on the ppl in there lives and be secretive and DL I found out someone I am with is DL mind you I use to have to beg him to do anything with me and he’s very boring in bed but than I found out he has been texting lots of other ppl men and women and has a porn and masturbation issue but struggles to meet my needs. I told him I was open to absolutely anything but he claims our sex life is good the way it is and I completely disagree. Also he acts very very homophobic when I talk about bi people. It’s clear he wants it to stay a secret but the truth is I know eveything but I don’t think he knows I know the truth about him. Please give advice on what I should do or how should I go about it. I don’t want to leave him but I don’t want to catch a disease.