u/dumbbunnylucy

Just wanted to share a brief clip showing the part of a healthy dom/sub relationship that can be easy to overlook. Strong trust and healthy communication is vital. Yes, he can do pretty much anything he wants to me, and yes, I'll obey his every command, but those are privileges that he earned.

If you watch this clip with the sound on, you can hear me react more strongly after a particularly hard impact from the flogger. He immediately notices this, pauses, and asks if I'm all right. Once I confirm that I am, he resumes flogging me.

These types of interactions may be less fun and sexy than the polished fantasy you see depicted more regularly, but it's these moments that make the fantasy possible.