Should we do a Luna's free task this Sunday?

I'm quite busy this Saturday.

Or should we do that next week???

Anyways I see 3-5 consistent members who actually interact with my posts? Why are others too silent?

Drop a hi and your intros in the comments to gain some brownie points for the tasks

Intro format
Kink name
Age
Role ( sub/ cuck)
Kinks
Hardlimits
:)

I will even allow some of you to post here for task posts and intro posts :)

Also look out for (Good🐶) user flair for the veterans who post and comment frequently. I'm planning to reward you guys with special flairs 😌

If you think you have interacted a lot with me, feel free to request custom user flair in the comments too 🤭

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Any mocktail recipe worthy for a goddess ?

Comment below 🤭

How funny is that you have a subReddit for SPH 🤣🤣🤣🤣

This is a discussion thread, so basically a check in.

How's everything going for you guys? Kink life updates? Life update? Relationship updates 👀?

Feel free to share the deets in the comments and take this opportunity to engage with the community:)

Have a great day 🤭

If you can't follow a single boundary, how would you be a good sub?

Kink spaces have become so oversaturated with entitlement, desperation, and performative superiority that some of you genuinely need to hear this.

1. If they are not looking, they are simply not looking.

You writing paragraphs about how loyal, obedient, experienced, broken, trained, devoted, or “better than other subs” you are will not magically make someone interested in taking you in.

Attraction in kink dynamics is not a job application process where the loudest person wins. A domme closing their DMs, ignoring advances, declining interaction, or simply not engaging with you is a complete answer. Not an invitation to convince them harder.

You cannot negotiate attraction.
You cannot force chemistry.
You cannot guilt someone into dominance.

And honestly? The constant “please give me a chance, I’m different” speeches become white noise after a point.

2. The ratio is brutally skewed, and pretending otherwise helps nobody.

There are hundreds upon hundreds of submissives trying to get the attention of a much smaller number of dommes. That’s just reality.

So if you enter someone’s DMs acting entitled to immediate attention because you called yourself “a true sub,” you already lost the plot.

Most dommes are exhausted by the exact same opening messages:
- giant copy-pasted kink lists
- trauma dumping within five minutes
- “test me”
- “own me”
- “I can serve better than other men”
- instant dynamic fantasies with a complete stranger

You are speaking to a human being, not a custom-built kink vending machine designed to dispense validation, humiliation, praise, ownership, or sexual gratification on command.

The people who actually stand out are usually the ones capable of:
- emotional intelligence
- patience
- conversation outside kink
- self-awareness
- consistency
- respecting boundaries without whining about them

A dynamic is built. It is not speedrun through buzzwords and desperation.

3. If they do not want to DM you, that is the end of the conversation.

Not the beginning of your negotiation attempt.

Nobody in kink spaces owes you their time, emotional labor, attention, nurturing, dominance, submission, friendship, education, or access.

No response is a response.
“DMs closed” means closed.
Disinterest is not a challenge mode.

And some of you seriously need to stop treating boundaries like obstacles you’re supposed to cleverly bypass.

Now for dommes too:

Please stop opening conversations with immediate hostility, degradation, or superiority complexes toward strangers.

Submission is earned.
Trust is earned.
Authority is earned.

Walking into someone’s inbox throwing slurs around immediately and expecting instant obedience does not make you powerful. It just makes you socially exhausting.

Confidence and arrogance are not the same thing.

And subs:
Stop trying to get attention by insulting other dommes in someone else’s DMs.

Nothing makes me lose interest faster than:
- “you’re better than other dommes”
- calling other women fake
- degrading fellow dommes for approval points
- trying to manufacture competition to seem desirable

Especially when my DMs are already closed.

It’s manipulative, weird, and honestly embarrassing.

If you cannot respect other people in the community, you are not showing devotion or loyalty. You are showing insecurity and entitlement.

Kink spaces work infinitely better when people approach each other like actual human beings first instead of immediately trying to force fantasies, status games, ownership, or superiority contests onto strangers.

We are better than this. A healthy kink space in India is a need. Let's not ruin it

And the thing that I hate the most is the baby dommes reaching out to me to learn how to be a domme!? This is my story in dms for as long as I remember. Dominance is part of nature , not a skill to learn. It's who you are!!!

This might be a rant, but I genuinely hate people who don't understand boundaries.

If you want the community to be better, we need more support.

The mods are doing their best ( if I say so myself) but we might need help.

So if you guys find anything stupid, or just plainly wrong, may it be kink shaming, body shaming, any type of suspicious posts, make sure to comment and call that out!

Your contribution makes this community better.

Special shoutout to u/Plane-Spinach32 for commenting on such things and also sending apt modmail!

Let's make this community better ;)

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