Would there be interest in a private men’s social club for guys who don’t always feel like they fit into regular LGBTQ spaces?
I’m exploring the idea of starting a private, members-only social club for men who are bisexual, questioning, discreet, closeted, married, traditionally masculine, or otherwise living a life where they don’t always have a comfortable place to be fully honest around other men.
The idea is not a hookup group or a party scene. It would be more like a private brotherhood / clubhouse where men can relax, talk, build friendships, and be around other guys who understand the same kind of life situation.
The long-term vision would be something like a private clubhouse with amenities such as:
- A lounge area
- A gym or fitness space
- A cigar / conversation area
- A wet bar or social bar setup
- Private member events
- Brotherhood-style community standards
- A discreet but respectful membership process
The goal would be to create a space where men can feel comfortable without judgment, pressure, or having to explain themselves. Privacy, maturity, respect, and trust would be major parts of the culture.
I’m still in the early idea stage and trying to see if there is real interest before taking any big steps. I’d like to hear from men who would actually understand the need for something like this.
A few questions:
Would you be interested in a private club like this if it existed in your area?
What would make you feel safe and comfortable joining something like this?
What kind of rules, amenities, or events would make it worth being part of?
Would you prefer it to start as a private online group first, like Discord, before anything in-person?
I’m mainly looking for honest feedback and serious interest. Feel free to comment generally, or message me privately if you’d rather not respond publicly.