u/jdoeinboston

Who I am: I'm an elder millennial empty nester; nerdy and neurodivergent (ADHD), I'll talk your ear off about my latest hyperfixation if you'll let me. Current hyperfixations include, but are not limited to: DIY home reno (There may be a few in progress zones in my home), Brandon Sanderson's Cosmere books, messing with electronics, and writing my entirely too in-depth thoughts on random crap.

I'm ENM and have one current partner (not cohabitating). I'm a homeowner (hence the projects) and my roommates are a senior cat and a young dog (photos furnished eagerly upon request). I'm politically *very* liberal and not particularly shy about it. Hobby-wise, I like video games, camping, hiking, and wandering around the city. I'm working on expanding my hobbies, so open to plenty more.

What I'm looking for: Something in the realm of a FWB with potential for more. I'm relatively recently divorced (2024) and not aiming for anything remarkably serious, though I won't rule out something growing organically. I'd love to maybe get high (420) and go for a walk/play video games/watch TV or movies with someone. I'd also appreciate someone nerdy, but I'd *really* like someone neurodivergent.

I don't have a specific physical type, but I'm absolutely particular on the personality side of things. Liberal is a must; you don't need to be out there constantly engaged in activism, but even for a FWB I want someone with similar ideals. Nerdy is a plus, of course. My "type" usually winds up being former theater kids.

Ideally, I'd like someone who can hang out a couple of times a month. I'm a 9 to 5er and tend to have most weeknight evenings free, but can usually do weekends too. I live north of the city (T accessible); I can and prefer to host but I'm fine coming to you. I'd want to do a public meetup before anything else. I'm clean and tested, but consider condoms a must either way. Dealbreakers are MAGA, terfs, antivax/antimask, and cigarette smokers.

The NSFW stuff: I'm a soft/pleasure dom with a huge thing for women with praise kinks. Big on consent, I like to check in during and a discussion on limits prior to anything sexual is a must (Could be over chat while figuring out if we want to meet or could be over drinks/coffee). The pleasure dom thing manifests in a love of responsiveness. I like my partner to feel good and I like to be able to tell: moans, happy sighs, body language, and a woman who's not afraid to tell me if something isn't working (So I can move on to something that will). I'm similarly responsive and it's not hard to tell when I'm enjoying myself (I moan and love giving positive feedback, hence the praise kink affection).

That's probably enough for now, so if you're interested please do slide into my DMs.

Who I am: I'm an elder millennial empty nester; nerdy and neurodivergent (ADHD), I'll talk your ear off about my latest hyperfixation if you'll let me. Current hyperfixations include, but are not limited to: DIY home reno (There may be a few in progress zones in my home), Brandon Sanderson's Cosmere books, messing with electronics, and writing my entirely too in-depth thoughts on random crap.

I'm ENM and have one current partner (not cohabitating). I'm a homeowner (hence the projects) and my roommates are a senior cat and a young dog (photos furnished eagerly upon request). I'm politically *very* liberal and not particularly shy about it. Hobby-wise, I like video games, camping, hiking, and wandering around the city. I'm working on expanding my hobbies, so open to plenty more.

What I'm looking for: Something in the realm of a FWB with potential for more. I'm relatively recently divorced (2024) and not aiming for anything remarkably serious, though I won't rule out something growing organically. I'd love to maybe get high (420) and go for a walk/play video games/watch TV or movies with someone. I'd also appreciate someone nerdy, but I'd *really* like someone neurodivergent.

I don't have a specific physical type, but I'm absolutely particular on the personality side of things. Liberal is a must; you don't need to be out there constantly engaged in activism, but even for a FWB I want someone with similar ideals. Nerdy is a plus, of course. My "type" usually winds up being former theater kids.

Ideally, I'd like someone who can hang out a couple of times a month. I'm a 9 to 5er and tend to have most weeknight evenings free, but can usually do weekends too. I live north of the city (T accessible); I can and prefer to host but I'm fine coming to you. I'd want to do a public meetup before anything else. I'm clean and tested, but consider condoms a must either way. Dealbreakers are MAGA, terfs, antivax/antimask, and cigarette smokers.

The NSFW stuff: I'm a soft/pleasure dom with a huge thing for women with praise kinks. Big on consent, I like to check in during and a discussion on limits prior to anything sexual is a must (Could be over chat while figuring out if we want to meet or could be over drinks/coffee). The pleasure dom thing manifests in a love of responsiveness. I like my partner to feel good and I like to be able to tell: moans, happy sighs, body language, and a woman who's not afraid to tell me if something isn't working (So I can move on to something that will). I'm similarly responsive and it's not hard to tell when I'm enjoying myself (I moan and love giving positive feedback, hence the praise kink affection).

That's probably enough for now, so if you're interested please do slide into my DMs.

Who I am: I'm an elder millennial empty nester; nerdy and neurodivergent (ADHD), I'll talk your ear off about my latest hyperfixation if you'll let me. Current hyperfixations include, but are not limited to: DIY home reno (There may be a few in progress zones in my home), Brandon Sanderson's Cosmere books, messing with electronics, and writing my entirely too in-depth thoughts on random crap.

I'm ENM and have one current partner (not cohabitating). I'm a homeowner (hence the projects) and my roommates are a senior cat and a young dog (photos furnished eagerly upon request). I'm politically *very* liberal and not particularly shy about it. Hobby-wise, I like video games, camping, hiking, and wandering around the city. I'm working on expanding my hobbies, so open to plenty more.

What I'm looking for: Something in the realm of a FWB with potential for more. I'm relatively recently divorced (2024) and not aiming for anything remarkably serious, though I won't rule out something growing organically. I'd love to maybe get high (420) and go for a walk/play video games/watch TV or movies with someone. I'd also appreciate someone nerdy, but I'd *really* like someone neurodivergent.

I don't have a specific physical type, but I'm absolutely particular on the personality side of things. Liberal is a must; you don't need to be out there constantly engaged in activism, but even for a FWB I want someone with similar ideals. Nerdy is a plus, of course. My "type" usually winds up being former theater kids.

Ideally, I'd like someone who can hang out a couple of times a month. I'm a 9 to 5er and tend to have most weeknight evenings free, but can usually do weekends too. I live north of the city (T accessible); I can and prefer to host but I'm fine coming to you. I'd want to do a public meetup before anything else. I'm clean and tested, but consider condoms a must either way. Dealbreakers are MAGA, terfs, antivax/antimask, and cigarette smokers.

The NSFW stuff: I'm a soft/pleasure dom with a huge thing for women with praise kinks. Big on consent, I like to check in during and a discussion on limits prior to anything sexual is a must (Could be over chat while figuring out if we want to meet or could be over drinks/coffee). The pleasure dom thing manifests in a love of responsiveness. I like my partner to feel good and I like to be able to tell: moans, happy sighs, body language, and a woman who's not afraid to tell me if something isn't working (So I can move on to something that will). I'm similarly responsive and it's not hard to tell when I'm enjoying myself (I moan and love giving positive feedback, hence the praise kink affection).

That's probably enough for now, so if you're interested please do slide into my DMs.

Who I am: I'm an elder millennial empty nester; nerdy and neurodivergent (ADHD), I'll talk your ear off about my latest hyperfixation if you'll let me. Current hyperfixations include, but are not limited to: DIY home reno (There may be a few in progress zones in my home), Brandon Sanderson's Cosmere books, messing with electronics, and writing my entirely too in-depth thoughts on random crap.

I'm ENM and have one current partner (not cohabitating). I'm a homeowner (hence the projects) and my roommates are a senior cat and a young dog (photos furnished eagerly upon request). I'm politically *very* liberal and not particularly shy about it. Hobby-wise, I like video games, camping, hiking, and wandering around the city. I'm working on expanding my hobbies, so open to plenty more.

What I'm looking for: Something in the realm of a FWB with potential for more. I'm relatively recently divorced (2024) and not aiming for anything remarkably serious, though I won't rule out something growing organically. I'd love to maybe get high (420) and go for a walk/play video games/watch TV or movies with someone. I'd also appreciate someone nerdy, but I'd *really* like someone neurodivergent.

I don't have a specific physical type, but I'm absolutely particular on the personality side of things. Liberal is a must; you don't need to be out there constantly engaged in activism, but even for a FWB I want someone with similar ideals. Nerdy is a plus, of course. My "type" usually winds up being former theater kids.

Ideally, I'd like someone who can hang out a couple of times a month. I'm a 9 to 5er and tend to have most weeknight evenings free, but can usually do weekends too. I live north of the city (T accessible); I can and prefer to host but I'm fine coming to you. I'd want to do a public meetup before anything else. I'm clean and tested, but consider condoms a must either way. Dealbreakers are MAGA, terfs, antivax/antimask, and cigarette smokers.

The NSFW stuff: I'm a soft/pleasure dom with a huge thing for women with praise kinks. Big on consent, I like to check in during and a discussion on limits prior to anything sexual is a must (Could be over chat while figuring out if we want to meet or could be over drinks/coffee). The pleasure dom thing manifests in a love of responsiveness. I like my partner to feel good and I like to be able to tell: moans, happy sighs, body language, and a woman who's not afraid to tell me if something isn't working (So I can move on to something that will). I'm similarly responsive and it's not hard to tell when I'm enjoying myself (I moan and love giving positive feedback, hence the praise kink affection).

That's probably enough for now, so if you're interested please do slide into my DMs.

Who I am: I'm an elder millennial empty nester; nerdy and neurodivergent (ADHD), I'll talk your ear off about my latest hyperfixation if you'll let me. Current hyperfixations include, but are not limited to: DIY home reno (There may be a few in progress zones in my home), Brandon Sanderson's Cosmere books, messing with electronics, and writing my entirely too in-depth thoughts on random crap.

I'm ENM and have one current partner (not cohabitating). I'm a homeowner (hence the projects) and my roommates are a senior cat and a young dog (photos furnished eagerly upon request). I'm politically *very* liberal and not particularly shy about it. Hobby-wise, I like video games, camping, hiking, and wandering around the city. I'm working on expanding my hobbies, so open to plenty more.

What I'm looking for: Something in the realm of a FWB with potential for more. I'm relatively recently divorced (2024) and not aiming for anything remarkably serious, though I won't rule out something growing organically. I'd love to maybe get high (420) and go for a walk/play video games/watch TV or movies with someone. I'd also appreciate someone nerdy, but I'd *really* like someone neurodivergent.

I don't have a specific physical type, but I'm absolutely particular on the personality side of things. Liberal is a must; you don't need to be out there constantly engaged in activism, but even for a FWB I want someone with similar ideals. Nerdy is a plus, of course. My "type" usually winds up being former theater kids.

Ideally, I'd like someone who can hang out a couple of times a month. I'm a 9 to 5er and tend to have most weeknight evenings free, but can usually do weekends too. I live north of the city (T accessible); I can and prefer to host but I'm fine coming to you. I'd want to do a public meetup before anything else. I'm clean and tested, but consider condoms a must either way. Dealbreakers are MAGA, terfs, antivax/antimask, and cigarette smokers.

The NSFW stuff: I'm a soft/pleasure dom with a huge thing for women with praise kinks. Big on consent, I like to check in during and a discussion on limits prior to anything sexual is a must (Could be over chat while figuring out if we want to meet or could be over drinks/coffee). The pleasure dom thing manifests in a love of responsiveness. I like my partner to feel good and I like to be able to tell: moans, happy sighs, body language, and a woman who's not afraid to tell me if something isn't working (So I can move on to something that will). I'm similarly responsive and it's not hard to tell when I'm enjoying myself (I moan and love giving positive feedback, hence the praise kink affection).

That's probably enough for now, so if you're interested please do slide into my DMs.

Who I am: I'm an elder millennial empty nester; nerdy and neurodivergent (ADHD), I'll talk your ear off about my latest hyperfixation if you'll let me. Current hyperfixations include, but are not limited to: DIY home reno (There may be a few in progress zones in my home), Brandon Sanderson's Cosmere books, messing with electronics, and writing my entirely too in-depth thoughts on random crap.

I'm ENM and have one current partner (not cohabitating). I'm a homeowner (hence the projects) and my roommates are a senior cat and a young dog (photos furnished eagerly upon request). I'm politically *very* liberal and not particularly shy about it. Hobby-wise, I like video games, camping, hiking, and wandering around the city. I'm working on expanding my hobbies, so open to plenty more.

What I'm looking for: Something in the realm of a FWB with potential for more. I'm relatively recently divorced (2024) and not aiming for anything remarkably serious, though I won't rule out something growing organically. I'd love to maybe get high (420) and go for a walk/play video games/watch TV or movies with someone. I'd also appreciate someone nerdy, but I'd *really* like someone neurodivergent.

I don't have a specific physical type, but I'm absolutely particular on the personality side of things. Liberal is a must; you don't need to be out there constantly engaged in activism, but even for a FWB I want someone with similar ideals. Nerdy is a plus, of course. My "type" usually winds up being former theater kids.

Ideally, I'd like someone who can hang out a couple of times a month. I'm a 9 to 5er and tend to have most weeknight evenings free, but can usually do weekends too. I live north of the city (T accessible); I can and prefer to host but I'm fine coming to you. I'd want to do a public meetup before anything else. I'm clean and tested, but consider condoms a must either way. Dealbreakers are MAGA, terfs, antivax/antimask, and cigarette smokers.

The NSFW stuff: I'm a soft/pleasure dom with a huge thing for women with praise kinks. Big on consent, I like to check in during and a discussion on limits prior to anything sexual is a must (Could be over chat while figuring out if we want to meet or could be over drinks/coffee). The pleasure dom thing manifests in a love of responsiveness. I like my partner to feel good and I like to be able to tell: moans, happy sighs, body language, and a woman who's not afraid to tell me if something isn't working (So I can move on to something that will). I'm similarly responsive and it's not hard to tell when I'm enjoying myself (I moan and love giving positive feedback, hence the praise kink affection).

That's probably enough for now, so if you're interested please do slide into my DMs.

Who I am: I'm an elder millennial empty nester; nerdy and neurodivergent (ADHD), I'll talk your ear off about my latest hyperfixation if you'll let me. Current hyperfixations include, but are not limited to: DIY home reno (There may be a few in progress zones in my home), Brandon Sanderson's Cosmere books, messing with electronics, and writing my entirely too in-depth thoughts on random crap.

I'm ENM and have one current partner (not cohabitating). I'm a homeowner (hence the projects) and my roommates are a senior cat and a young dog (photos furnished eagerly upon request). I'm politically *very* liberal and not particularly shy about it. Hobby-wise, I like video games, camping, hiking, and wandering around the city. I'm working on expanding my hobbies, so open to plenty more.

What I'm looking for: Something in the realm of a FWB with potential for more. I'm relatively recently divorced (2024) and not aiming for anything remarkably serious, though I won't rule out something growing organically. I'd love to maybe get high (420) and go for a walk/play video games/watch TV or movies with someone. I'd also appreciate someone nerdy, but I'd *really* like someone neurodivergent.

I don't have a specific physical type, but I'm absolutely particular on the personality side of things. Liberal is a must; you don't need to be out there constantly engaged in activism, but even for a FWB I want someone with similar ideals. Nerdy is a plus, of course. My "type" usually winds up being former theater kids.

Ideally, I'd like someone who can hang out a couple of times a month. I'm a 9 to 5er and tend to have most weeknight evenings free, but can usually do weekends too. I live north of the city (T accessible); I can and prefer to host but I'm fine coming to you. I'd want to do a public meetup before anything else. I'm clean and tested, but consider condoms a must either way. Dealbreakers are MAGA, terfs, antivax/antimask, and cigarette smokers.

The NSFW stuff: I'm a soft/pleasure dom with a huge thing for women with praise kinks. Big on consent, I like to check in during and a discussion on limits prior to anything sexual is a must (Could be over chat while figuring out if we want to meet or could be over drinks/coffee). The pleasure dom thing manifests in a love of responsiveness. I like my partner to feel good and I like to be able to tell: moans, happy sighs, body language, and a woman who's not afraid to tell me if something isn't working (So I can move on to something that will). I'm similarly responsive and it's not hard to tell when I'm enjoying myself (I moan and love giving positive feedback, hence the praise kink affection).

That's probably enough for now, so if you're interested please do slide into my DMs.

The long and short is I`m looking to fool around on the internet. I've got a cheating scene on my mind tonight.

You're out to dinner with your husband (Or boyfriend if you'd prefer) and he's done something to piss you off. That could be up to you, though we can just say he made an ass of himself. Livid, you leave the restaurant and decide to find a bar to blow off some steam, as annoyed as you've ever been.

At least the party was downtown, so you don't have to look too hard to find something. Popping in to a few, some of them packed, others with a bad atmosphere; you finally settled on an only moderately busy hotel bar. You're not there very long before a handsome looking older man takes a seat next to you at the bar. He offers to buy you a drink and you think "why the hell not?"

Not much later, your other half has been blowing up your phone, but you're busy right now, following the stranger to the elevator bank on the way to his room.

Some kinks: Rough (Spanking, hair pulling, choking), dirty talk, facials/cumshots, overtly slutty women), CMNF, CFNM, public risk. I fall somewhere in the Venn diagram of soft, Daddy, and pleasure dom. I love women with praise kinks.

Hard limits: pee/scat, incest, blood

I tend to prefer to chat for at least a few minutes first to get a feel for each other.

I also prefer chat to PM (I tend to be relatively short in my responses by some standards here, sometimes as few as one sentence, almost never more than three or four), though I also will happily PM with a potential partner if the match is right.

And for those of us who love options:

You're on a group camping trip with your s/o and you're getting annoyed at how little attention he's been paying you. You decide to go take a walk. A few sites down, you spot a handsome man you'd seen a few times sitting at his campfire and decide to say hello.

You're my daughter`s college roommate and staying with us for a few weeks during break. You've been making the most of the college experience and have taken a special liking to older men. One evening, with my wife and daughter both out of the house, you start to think about how badly you've wanted to try an older man and decide to go see what I'm up to.

You've just had a fight with your husband and are doing what you always do afterward: swiping through your secret Tinder account for validation. You never respond to any messages, it`s just to feel good. Until you swipe on a good looking older man before realizing he's the guy who just moved in next door.

You're working the graveyard shift by yourself at a small diner just off the highway in the middle of nowhere. You don't see a lot of customers this late. I'm driving a few states over and getting tired, so I decide to stop when I notice your diner.

As you can probably guess by now, I don't tend toward the shy type. I appreciate a woman who's not afraid to play flirty or even overtly slutty.

If you're interested, give me a hello!