u/jiraiya0i0

i'm curious how differently we see ourselves compared to how the opposite gender sees us. This is me completely relaxed and 100%soft, no posing or trying to make anything look different. We spent so much time noticing our own flaws that i wonder if other people even focus on the same things. sometimes attraction probably has less to do with having a "perfect" body and more to do with confidence, presence, and how comfortable someone seems in their own skin.