Hookup didn’t warn me…
So I’m on Grindr around 10:30 PM tired as hell but still curious for something to finish off the night. I find this tall fit hairy ginger guy around my age who is interested in me and wants to meet up. Let me preface by saying he’s interested in me fisting him (but not cleaned out because he’s into that). That should’ve been the red flag number one. But here I am.
Fast forward I go over to this guys place meet him and seem to hit it off real fast. He’s got a fat ass, is taller than me, a ton of body hair…perfection…on paper.
I get to fisting him and feel stuff I’m not used to. So what. It’s a new experience. Am I super into it and kinda grossed out. Yes. But it’s all about trying new things. And making your hookup feel good too.
Then he wants it rubbed all over him and then he rubs all over me so then I’m sitting there wrist deep in the guy covered in everything but blood. That should’ve been red flag number two. But here I am.
And then…I look at my hand and it’s red. Not like a little drop or two. Like the Coca-Cola logo melted over my hand red. So I stop him and say heyyyyyyy so uuuuum idk what to do and he deadass goes “yeah I probably should’ve told you that…” like yes. You should’ve said “btw this might happen??” Thank God he can prove he’s on prep and doxy otherwise I would’ve bolted.
Anyways I get cleaned up, I go back in and all is well. We finish our business together and although it’s not my forte, all in all I have a decent time. He is so sweet and gives me a kiss asks if I need anything, if I know where to go, acts like he has a good time. Before I can pull out of the apartment complex I’m blocked. Not a “this wasn’t great” or “probably won’t meet up again” nothing.
Idk. It just rubbed me the wrong way that he wouldn’t disclose something that could’ve happened due to a medical condition, expected me to be cool and go with the flow, acts so sweet, and then blocks me.
Gays these days are not as fun as they used to be…