Probably a bit too vulnerable and will probably delete, but hey! I’m all about transparency!
So, after dealing with some intense life and health stuff, I’ve been on a weight loss journey these last couple years. I am back to my original weight and still have about 20 more pounds to go. Only thing is while my stomach is flatter, so are my boobs and ass. My skin isn’t as clear as it used to be either.
While I’m working on those things, I’d also like to find someone who can help me feel comfortable in and with my body again. Yes, partly through intimacy, but I’ve been focused on the physical and recognize that I also need to mentally “drop the weight” so to speak. I’d like to work on recapturing my previous energy and sense of self by also going out and re-experiencing the world and trying new things this spring and summer. Ideally with another person. Potentially with you?
I’m black. 5’9. 150ish. 34C. Athletic, hourglass frame/shape. Minimal loose skin but plenty of stretch marks. Mostly introverted. Neurodivergent. Classic overthinker. Like to DIY. Love the outdoors. Nerdy. Cute face. Kinda shy at first. Quintessential good girl with a mischievous streak a mile long. Lots of kinks. Open-minded. Pretty easygoing.
Hopefully, there’s a spark and we share some interests, get along, and become good friends if not more. I’d love if you were also neurodivergent and/or nerdy as well. Obviously have to be okay with someone who isn’t perfect, but perhaps there’s something that you’re working on yourself?
You: Tall, hung, older - I like to wear heels and feel small, am a bit of a size queen, and looking for someone mid-30s to mid-50s. Single - not interested in someone in any sort of relationship (please no married or ENM.) High sex drive. Genuinely like to cuddle. Live alone. Driven, successful professional type. Smart, kind, thoughtful. Good sense of humor. Have a more extroverted personality that can match my weird and draw me out of my shell. Hygienic. DDF. Looking for something long-term.
Really open to a lot about what makes you, you! Please reach out if you’re on the fence.
If interested, send me a message and tell me about yourself. Please include your age, race, height, and location. I don’t send pictures so don’t ask. Low quality messages will be skipped. Would love to set up a low-stakes meet soon - like next week.
Hope to hear from you!